Hi!

How are you today? 

Thanks for letting me intrude on your inbox today.  There's something I really want to share with you for a second.

When it comes to personal happiness and success in your dating life or your married life, there is ONE THING that screws with men every time.

Most people will say it is fear.

Fear of rejection.  Fear of reactions.  Fear of losing someone.  Fear of looking stupid.  You name it.

But fear is not the cause, it's the symptom.

The cause is CONFIDENCE or lack thereof.

Think of ONE thing or time in your life when you felt fearless.

Sports?  Work?  School?

The feeling of fearlessness is preceded by the certainty of confidence!

Confidence is the feeling of "I got this".  It is knowing you've developed the wisdom, knowledge, and skills to deal with "scary stuff".

Confidence is the comfort of knowing that NO MATTER WHAT, you are going to be just fine.

Confidence even allows for the fact that you're not perfect.  You're okay knowing that you'll make mistakes and screw up every now and then.  With confidence, you've already figured out how you're going to handle it.

Confidence is what allows you to RESPOND with calmness instead of REACTING with fear.

In dating and marriage, CONFIDENCE is the one irreplaceable character trait for every man and woman.  It cannot be faked because you will know it.  That's when fear is able to get a foot in the door.

Developing your wisdom, knowledge, and skills is how I want to help you.  You simply can not become confident by reading "what" you should do.

You need someone to help you with the "how". 

I needed that help and I got it.  I can't believe I waited so long.  Doesn't matter.  I'm here now and I want to help you.

Spending time with other quality men who can help you is the FASTEST and most EFFECTIVE way to build your confidence.

That's why you should want to work with me .  That's why you should at least spend an hour talking with me...just to see how it feels to talk with someone you can trust.  Someone who will not judge you no matter what you think, say, or feel.

FYI, that "private edition" article I sent out was just published today in the Noomii Coaching Directory website.

Read "How to Decide What to Do With Your Marriage" HERE!

A man who reads this article and the 8 Personal Change Values I list may feel fear.

He may be afraid of HOW to adopt those principles as his own.   He may have fear of really KNOWING his values.  What will happen?  What will her reaction be?

It's CONFIDENCE that overcomes the fear.  Confidence makes all the difference in that man.

That man is you.

To Better Life and Love,

Steve