Hi again,
Thanks for opening this.
Just real quick.
Did you give your gift of words and touch yet?
If not, why not?
I think I know.
I know EXACTLY how you feel if you:
1. Have hardly EVER said things like that or touched her/him like that...
2. Feel like you're blushing and possibly look insincere saying words like that...
3. Have pent up resentment making you feel like they don't deserve it...
4. Want THEM to treat YOU well before you will go first....
5. Uncertain about the truthfulness of your LOVE for them...
All of these reasons for NOT giving your gift are NORMAL. You are NOT alone. I promise.
Don't let the next 2 days get away without at least trying.
If giving your gift to your intimate partner is just too stressful, you can STILL practice.
We ALL must practice getting comfortable with confidently creating POSITIVE FEELINGS in those we care about.
Do it for your son or daughter. Make your touch nurturing and parental. ("I so impressed by you and how you handled xyz...")
Do for a waitress or waiter tonight with a handshake or gentle touch to the elbow. Make EYE contact. ("You took such good care of us tonight. I appreciate that. You made us feel special.")
Use your innate masculine or feminine power to completely LIGHT UP the next 24 hrs. for someone who needs it or deserves it!
Two days ago I was feeling a little anxious and frustrated like you may be feeling right now.
I couldn't snap out of it.
I was at my bank trying to deposit a small check sent to my recently deceased mother. This was one of 10 errands on my list.
It wasn't made out to me. I KNEW it was going to be a battle. I was prepared to fight. Argh...
The manager treated me SO kindly. She whisked me through the process of a quick affidavit, smiled at me, looked straight into my eyes, (she was gorgeous, by the way), expressed condolences, and asked if she could do anything else.
She didn't deserve the anger I was prepared to show her. I decided right then to give her a gift instead.
I looked right into her big blue eyes and said,
"Mimi (yeah, that's her name), you just made my day. This was so much easier than I thought it would be. You must be an amazing leader because I have yet to come in here when your team DOESN'T "rock it". Thank you."
Her eyes watered quickly as she said, "thank you, I love to hear that."
I could tell she felt wonderful and probably did for the rest of the day. I'm sure her employees probably noticed a change in her too.
And, selfishly, I felt better too. My little funk I was in started to turn around. The rest of my day went much better than it started.
So. What do you think? Are you up for this?
Can you do this? Who will be the lucky one to feel your power and receive your gift?
Read this article again if you haven't yet.
YOUR SECRET POWER! CLICK HERE!
Tell me who you picked - what you did - and how it felt.
Being CONFIDENT with this SKILL is the very beginning of a HUGE change in your life.
I promise.
More to come....
To Better Life and Love,
Steve