Hello Friends,
First, I DO know my website has been hacked and the "Network Engineers" are working on it. Apparently, the Islamic Ghosts Team (whoever they are) has nothing better to do than to mess with other people's websites.
This is a newsletter to help you (and me!) remember the incredible, unbelievable power we all have to create good feelings in those we care about. I wrote about this power in a previous blog article for men, but obviously, EVERYONE has this power.
A wonderful woman sent me an email out of the blue. She said:
"Hi, Steve-I don't remember where I first encountered you recently, but I continue to be so impressed. You're simply the best I've read/heard when it comes to delivering pragmatic, comprehensive, balanced, straight-talkin' yet compassionate guidance in the man-woman terrain-guidance grounded in the polarity/energetics stuff that can be tricky, I'm guessing, for men to translate into consistent behavior. Here in my woman's perspective, I go, "Yes, yes," every time I read your essays."
This email didn't just make me feel good, it "gassed me up" for the next two days. I SO appreciated the kindness and the time she took to give me that GIFT. She didn't have to. She wanted nothing in return!
She simply did what I've been suggesting that MEN can do every day to reverse negative energy in their relationships. These gifts are equally powerful coming from men or women.
I didn't show you this email to stroke my own ego. It's just that it is a PERFECT example of the power you have in your thoughts and your words.
It's a CHOICE you can make to totally change the energy in every relationship you have!
Notice how specific she was. Notice the descriptive language she used. Notice that she didn't just call me a "great guy" or just say "I agree with you". What she gave me was SO MUCH more meaningful and heartfelt than any other possible casual compliment. It literally changed the energy inside me.
What does this mean to you? I'm sure I don't need to translate, but let me give you some examples of words or thoughts you can GIVE to the important people in your life. GIVE these things without expectations. If it helps, say them as you are walking past them. Think them while giving a firm hug.
Don't wait for reactions to feed your ego. These are gifts! Remember, even your thoughts and intentions can be felt by those closest to you!
- Honey, watching you effortlessly manage the kids' schedules and commitments makes me realize what an organized, talented, and loving person you are.
- I smile when I get to see your mind at work. I love the way you toss possibilities around out loud. It's like you're painting with ideas!
- People respect you because you're fair, firm, and compassionate. Not to mention sharp as a tack. Those things STILL make me proud to be your man/woman.
- Your gift here.
Send me the most honest, heartfelt gift you plan to give TODAY to someone special. I will put them ALL in my next newsletter. Tell us how it felt!
Email it to steve@goodguys2greatmen.com
Here's my gift to you today.
Getting to meet and know you is an incredible honor. You are open, honest, driven, introspective, generous, and loving and it makes me feel unworthy sometimes. I have bad days too and I cherish the times when you reach out to say something kind and supportive. Thanks for that and for being a part of my life.
Remember, knowing how to receive gifts is just as important! Don't say, "It's nothing". Don't ignore it or deny it. When anyone reaches out with their gifts, be sure to express your gratitude and tell them how much it meant to receive it.
Have a Great Day!
Lots of Love and Gratitude to You!
Steve
