Greetings Gentlemen and Ladies!
I've been talking to a lot of men lately about what I mean by the term "Good Guys". This category of man is extremely common and is beautifully written about by Dr. Robert Glover in a highly recommended book called, "No More Mr. Nice Guy".
I take this personally because I am a recovering "Nice Guy" or "Good Guy". What about you?
It turns out that SO MUCH of what we struggle with in relationships is caused by the "Nice Guy Syndrome".
Why aren't we getting our needs met for sex, respect, appreciation, and recognition?
Why do some of us we excel at work but our wives, girlfriends, or daughters don't treat us with the same level of adoration and respect?
This blog article is aimed at the "Good Guys" who are struggling with their relationships and may not understand why TALKING is getting them no results.
Read Saving Your Marriage by Saying Nothing at All HERE
The key lies in your energy! Is your love conditional? Do you have "covert contracts" with people that imply you are only giving to GET something from them? What are your true motives for trying to please your wife, girlfriend, or others?
When a man finally stops trying to get his needs met through indirect manipulation and expectation, he is finally FREE TO GIVE TO OTHERS from an authentic place of love and caring.
It's at THIS point where the people he cares for will be able to trust and respect him enough to WANT to meet his needs.
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Have a Great Day!
Lots of Brotherly Love to You!
Steve