Heads, Marriage. Tails, Divorced. Call it in the air!

Published: Mon, 04/15/13

Hi Guys and Gals,

It was a slow Sunday yesterday and I came across an article on "marriage statistics" from the US Census Bureau.  Isn't that what YOU normally do on a Sunday?
I had fun too - promise.  But the article got me thinking.

The fact that 2nd and 3rd marriage divorce rates get progressively WORSE for us means something. 

It could mean that we're not very quick learners. 

It could also mean that we're a bad judge of long-term partners. 

It could also mean we REALLY LIKE the first few years of marriage and simply choose to repeat it more quickly each time!

Read It Here:  Heads, Marriage.  Tails, Divorce.

I know that it ALWAYS take two to tango and to make a marriage last.  Neither partner is off-the-hook for playing their part.  You also know that I can be tougher on the guys than the gals when it comes to taking charge of the departments of fun, romance, and good feelings.

The article talks about the fact that most women know LONG in advance that they will be leaving the marriage.   I know - this sucks.  Their communication skills can be as horrible as legend has portrayed OUR skills.

This is why asking, "Is everything ok, honey?" is one of the world's worst questions.  It's tough to get a straight answer.  Men need to learn to already KNOW what the answer is without asking.   The answer is almost always in what can be seen, not heard.  Of course with us, "fine" actually means "fine".

Take a peek at the article and let me know your thoughts.  I could use more comments under the articles on the website, so if you're inclined to say something, please say it under the article you're reading.  I'll respond - promise.

And if you know someone whose face appears when you read the article, please give him a nudge in my direction.  First call is always free.  He's got nothing to lose.  Talking honestly with another guy is something none of should take for granted.

Thank you so much again for your readership and your support!

Read It Here:  Heads, Marriage.  Tails, Divorce.

Have a great day!  Remember to give her what she needs in the way SHE needs it.


Steve


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