Why Men Hurt So Badly When the "D' Word Comes Up

Published: Sat, 06/20/26

Updated: Wed, 06/24/26

Hey,

I'll keep this really short today.

I want you to know I see you and I hear you.

And if you're a guy who is living on the edge of separation or divorce, I know all about the deep, dark feelings of emotional pain and potential loss of everything you thought was your life.

Feelings of rejection, regret, guilt, shame, jealousy and anger keep taking their turn beating you up. Yeah, it's a thing...and every man I know in that position feels all of those every day.

You feel like you'll never live, laugh and love the way you always believed you would.

I'm here to tell you to just stop it.

It's simply not true.

Yeah, your thoughts are powerful and convincing. But I know something that maybe you don't...yet.

You can't believe everything you THINK or everything you FEEL. Most of it is LIES...damn lies.

The only way I know to shake myself and others like you out of the funk is to do something new...something strangely uncomfortable.

And THAT thing is to open your freakin' heart up to other men who are CARBON COPIES OF YOU.

That's right, you're a cliché.

And the only way to NOT be a cliché is to make a choice to do something that clichés never do.

You WILL live, laugh and love again...no doubt.

But you will need to start changing the toxic thinking patterns that have you convinced otherwise.

I'm challenging you to do something new, different and weird.

Take this course and join the community conversation.

Your life will change for the better. We guarantee that will happen no matter what the final outcome is for your marriage.

In fact, by participating in this course, online community and live meetings, you WILL begin to feel alive again, amused again and loved again.

That's enough said. It's easy to do.

And, it's easy to NOT do.

Here's the link for ya.

www.HowToDefuseTheDivorceBomb.com

An In-Depth, Laser-Focused, Intensive Designed To Give You Back Your Masculine Confidence, Clarity, Peace, Happiness, and Mojo When Your Marriage Is On the Rocks.

Not only are there over 8 hours of video coaching modules, but there is a regular LIVE group coaching call every month as well.

Check out the course details RIGHT HERE.

On that page are FOUR SAMPLE VIDEOS from Modules 1 through 4 of How to Defuse the Divorce Bomb that will give you a real taste of what the course is like.

Tons of love,

Steve & Tim

P.S. Here's a common question we get about the course. (You can find more at the bottom of the info page)

How can I know if it's already too late for me and buying this course would just be a waste of time?

Good question. Clearing the wreckage of your particular divorce bomb may not be possible. It's could be that your wife is so emotionally and mentally unhealthy that she's entirely unwilling and incapable of being the partner you want in your life. It's also possible she is so totally done and checked out that she has a brand new life planned that doesn't include you.

And it's possible that YOU may become so clear and confident in what you expect of yourself and for yourself that you're the one who decides to let the bomb go off.

The bigger point is this. If your instincts tell you there is something still worth working for then you must do this work.

And guess what? We know that even if your chances of saving this version of your marriage are low...you must do this work! Every single man we coach who has done this work and wound up divorced discovers something amazing. He doesn't die! Not only that... he thrives like he never imagined.

www.HowToDefuseTheDivorceBomb.com

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Steven Horsmon

550 Drake Ranch Rd., Livermore, CO 80536, USA

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