That's
right. Divorce filing statistics show that roughly 75% of all divorce filings in the US are filed by women.
Why?
It's
very simple.
Some
people try to explain it by saying women have no commitment, no honor, no integrity or no grit.
Others
blame women for blaming men for everything including their daily sense of "happiness".
Here's
the truth from MY statistics after 11 years of this work.
Women
simply follow their FEELINGS more than men do.
That's
it.
More
women file divorce than men because they have a much more intense relationship with their thoughts and their feelings than men do.
This
gets misconstrued as a lack of commitment or honor.
Alison
Armstrong has been a women's relationship coach for decades. She tries to help men understand this about women. She says, and I paraphrase,
Women
have a deep instinct and commitment to their feelings. They are constantly reading their environment and their relationship for security and safety.
If
you can learn this now, you can begin to help her change her feelings toward you and your relationship.
When
she senses a long term pattern of being insecure and unsafe, she will start saying things like:
I
don't feel connected with you
You
don't make me feel safe, heard or seen
I
think we need space apart so I can find myself
I
love you, but I don't feel "in love" with you
Sometimes
she will start strange behaviors you haven't seen before.
Sometimes
she will hang out with people who used to disgust her.
Sometime
she just goes cold and gives you nothing but one word responses.
And
it's about this time most guys start getting really, really anxious.
Here's
the deal brother. You're a cliché
.
And so is she.
This
stuff happens in marriage every single day. Most men respond to it all wrong. Don't be a cliché.
Most
men ratchet up the pressure and the demands for closeness.
Most
men smother her with fearful questions and dramatic reactions.
Most
men start arguing over the stupidest sh*t you can think of...just trying to get her to explain herself.
None
of that works.
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