Hey brother,
After nearly 10 years of running
our How to Defuse the Divorce Bomb community, we've got some "data" to share. You like data, right? Of course, you do.
Every man would love to predict when things might happen in the future...especially bad things.
Well, our data is pretty reliable. And when it comes to predicting whether or not you'll still be married in 3 years, it's pretty easy. Yes, really.
Here are
the foolproof test questions that indicate you may already be in the “Two-Year Time Bomb” window...inching your way to divorce by the third year.
- Do you and your wife tend to move toward each other during conflict...gently...to understand each other first...instead of winning the argument? (Yes = really good!)
- Do you and your wife routinely recognize each other's contributions and show gratitude for the relationship? (Yes = really good!)
- Does your wife frequently "need space" from you, your energy, your words, and/or your touch? (Yes = really bad)
- Do you and your wife frequently show negativity
to each other in the form of criticism, stonewalling, defensiveness, or contemptuous insults? (Yes = really bad)
If you answered "Yes" to numbers 1 & 2, you should only keep reading for entertainment purposes. You're good.
If you answered "Yes" to numbers 3 & 4 should keep reading. You're absolutely not good.
Stop Over-complicating Your Relationship
Too many couples over-complicate their relationship. We don't believe that a good relationship will always feel easy. But, our data says the path to a good relationship is amazingly SIMPLE when you learn to stop doing the things that make it feel hard.
It's simple, but not "easy".
People who make their relationship hard do it for 3 reasons:
- They are insecure in their own value and immature in their expectations. They
need to grow up and connect with their own worthiness.
- They are emotionally competitive, judgmental, and self-righteous. They need to want love more than they need to be right.
- They have never learned how to lead and how to harness their super-power for creating feelings of love, trust and connection. They need to learn basic leadership and
relationship skills their parent never taught them!
How to Make Immediate Improvements in All 3 Areas Before It's Too Late
Some couples and individuals desperately need
professional therapy or counseling to overcome their fears, childhood wounds and toxic behaviors.
Our data says MOST do not. And this may include you and your wife.
Therapy plays an important role in helping people tackle deep rooted problems and healing trauma wounds. Therapy is a starting point to help resolve chronic issues with self-worth, self-respect and self-sabotaging thinking and behaviors.
Our
coaching methodology and our tried and true How to Defuse the Divorce Bomb course assumes you're not broken. We START with the assumption that you're simply challenged with a
THINKING problem.
This is causing a very uncomfortable FEELING problem.
And that is causing a lot of incredibly unhealthy and
totally ineffective BEHAVIOR problems.
This applies to both of you, obviously.
Our approach is to hold you up as an
unbroken, fully capable, strong, loving man of action.
- We believe you want to think more clearly from a place of calm, confident, inner peace.
- We believe you want to be more relaxed, loving, secure and generous in your marriage.
- We believe you want to be seen as a strong, caring leader who connects without force and builds trust without fear or drama.
- We believe you want a healthy relationship full of love, affection, passion, care, high regard and mutual consideration.
Well,
you're in the right place.
We want all of that too in our lives.
And we're really good at helping you find your way there without over-complicating it and without unnecessary visits to a therapist who doesn't have our data in hand.
This is how we will help you. We created this offer specifically for a man who wants all six of those things above.
An In-Depth, Laser-Focused, Online Program Designed To Give You Back Your Masculine Confidence, Clarity,
Peace, Happiness, and Mojo When Your Marriage Is On the Rocks
