The Simple and Scary Cure for Jealousy
Don't you hate it when people give useless advice
like:
"Hey, just don't think about it." or,
"Hey, you're making too much of this." or,
"Hey,
just stop obsessing about it and let it go."
The problem with curing jealousy is that we must goes deeper into the fear behind the jealous fears in your mind.
Jealousy isn't just about your head being filled up with stories and imagined fears.
Jealousy is about an EMPTINESS inside of you that NO AMOUNT OF EXTERNAL ASSURANCE CAN FIX.
As I said in the
video, insecurity is the #1 Human Emotional Disease.
- Food craving is caused by the empty, insecure feeling of hunger.
- Envying other people's lives or possessions is caused by the
empty, insecure feeling of not being enough.
- Protecting or defending our wealth, reputation or honor is caused by the empty, insecure feeling of a scarcity mindset.
- And
feeling gutted by the suspicion of betrayal, disrespect or rejection is caused by the empty, insecure and shameful feeling of unworthiness.
It's that last one that brings most men into the Goodguys2Greatmen community.
That one HURTS the most. And men don't ask for help unless the pain level has reached epic proportions.
The scary cure for jealousy is LEARNING THAT YOU ARE WORTHY.
Notice I did NOT say, "learning to become worthy".
Being worthy is not a place to get to. You're already there, brother.
It never actually left you.
What you must learn now is how to make your natural, inherent worthiness and value a PLACE THAT YOU COME FROM.
When you learn to come from a place of worthiness, jealousy simply can't survive.
Are you ready to ask for help yet?
