First, I want to invite you to our next group coaching call this Thursday 5th March at 12pm mountain time.
The topic for this call is: Is This the REAL Purpose of a Woman in Your Life??
We are going to talk about author David Deida's assertions in the book The Way of the Superior Man. His writing and thinking can feel cryptic...sometimes spiritual...and often confusing. Let's get real about what it means to be a man for a woman...and what it means for her to be a woman
for you.
We're going to talk about:
Can a man or woman really be doing anything to make their partner "better"?
What does it mean if a woman is able to "inspire you out of your head and into your heart"?
What does it mean to be able to "f*ck her heart wide open"?
Does all this require some kind of intense "role playing" or extreme polarity?
What if you're both "strong" personalities...or both "passive" personalities?
What does it mean to be a "leader" without coming across as dominant, directive or superior?
This is going to be a great conversation! If you're looking for a new mindset to keep moving forward, you'll love
this Roundtable session!
The other day a man I met told me an embarrassing secret.
"I feel respected,
appreciated and admired just about everywhere else in my life...except when I get home!"
He is normally a confident, high-achieving and successful man. Can you relate?
He has worked hard to earn what he has. He has mastered his craft and is highly knowledgeable and skilled. He is regarded as credible, dependable, reliable and trustable. He experiences a high level of respect and admiration from his colleagues and employees.
And, in his
work life, he is easy-going, likeable, light-hearted and generous with his kindness, thoughtfulness and friendship.
Annnnnnd at home...not so much.
At home he feels
less important and less appreciated. His super powers at work don't seem to count for as much at home.
And when she's mad or upset, he tends to feel her emotions as judgments of him. He mistakes her complaints as criticism and her anger as disrespect.
Here's the dirty little secret.
He's quietly afraid of her.
He fears her ability to make him feel small and inadequate.
He fears the possibility of abandonment.
In other words, he simply
fears that she can hurt him.
And it's this fear that makes him think, say and do the very things that make his marriage miserable. It's this fear that is the most reliable prediction his marriage won't last.
So what's the solution?
I made a video about
that.
