The Saddest Valentine's Day Story - Part 3 (David's Courage)
Published: Sun, 02/22/26
Updated: Sun, 02/22/26
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Hey,
In yesterday's Part 2 of David's
story, we felt the growing CLARITY is his thinking and his feeling of "okayness".
His next epiphany would be about the importance of "courage".
Courage is the decision to take action...even if it feels uncomfortable or scary.
David has always been the "good guy". He always tried to keep things peaceful...he wanted to keep Cheryl "happy with him" and he avoided saying or doing
anything at all that might create conflict.
He did this for the same reason all "good guys" do. He wanted her to like him...to desire him...and to give him the intimacy he craved.
That version of David
was changing. He knew he had to muster the courage to be more bold, more honest and more direct about what he values and what he wants.
Then THIS happened when David finished Module III:
David stopped shrinking away when he felt Cheryl
was rejecting him. He stopped trying to "get intimacy" from her and began BEING more intimate in his words and his actions. He became fearless in GIVING the energy of intimacy instead of fearing the loss of intimacy.
David started speaking more clearly, casually and unapologetically about what he values. He stopped defending his feelings about wanting more emotional
connection and emotional honesty. He simply started BEING more emotionally connected and honest. And he didn't think about the reaction or outcome.
David stopped agonizing over the lack of sex with Cheryl. Instead, he started seeing himself as a healthy, sexual man of value. He could talk about sex without fear of judgment and without need for her sexual validation.
This felt oddly powerful and calming at the same time!
David stopped measuring his progress on a daily basis. He relaxed into letting go of any immediate outcomes and became very intentional with creating daily practices that gave him sense of peace and agency in his life. This "outcome indepence" started feeling like a super power.
Module III of the course taught David that courage is the prerequisite to confidence.
He didn't need to pretend he was confident. He simply needed to lose the fear of expressing his own thought, values and desires.
He needed to relying on his wife to validate his own worthiness or his own desire for a healthy connection with her.
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