How to Give Yourself a Little More Love on Valentine's Day

Published: Sat, 02/14/26

Updated: Sat, 02/14/26

Hey brother,

So it's another Valentine's Day.

It's the grandaddy of all the "Hallmark Holidays".

I have an idea for you.

Instead of getting all wrapped around the axle about what to do, what say or how to show her that she's loved, do something really extraordinary.

Love yourself, brother. At least, try to LIKE yourself.

You see, there's a huge misunderstanding about what women really want on Valentine's Day.

Sure, a little effort and a little thoughtfulness is always nice.

But there is NOTHING that compares to ACTUALLY and HONESTLY loving her.

Yeah. Just that.

How long has it been since you felt a deeply resonating, powerful feeling of adoring her...admiring her...and appreciating her?

Whenever I ask that question, guys normally say, "Yeah, well, of course I love her...she's a good mom and stuff."

The problem ALL of us have is this.

We can offer "actual and honest" love to someone only to the extent that we "actually and honestly" love ourselves.

And when we are feeling undesirable, unlovable and unappreciated - WITHIN OUR OWN MIND - it is impossible to convince anyone else that you honestly have love in your heart for them.

This is why I made this new Valentine's Day video for you.

I want you to give yourself a little more love today and the rest of this year!

Remember, I make these videos for me! You're just watching me talk to myself here. (and my goofy dog, Jace, rolling in the dirt!)

How to Give Yourself a Little More Love on Valentine's Day

You can only love someone else to the extent that love already exists within you

There. I said it again...a little differently.

What is the ONE THING...the one smallest courageous step you can take toward learning to truly love and respect yourself?

I'll tell you what you can do. You can decide to treat yourself to one of the most important and life-changing experiences you'll ever have.

You can just decide you're worth it and you'll make it happen come hell or high water.

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If you are interested but still unsure, I want you to REPLY TO THIS EMAIL and ask me for a private Zoom conversation about getting you to Colorado in May.

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As Teddy Roosevelt said:

“In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.”

Lotta love,

Steve & Dan

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