Hey brother,

Someone asked me the other day about my videos.

"Do you rehearse them?"

"Do you have a script?"

"Do you just hit "go" and see what happens?"

No.  None of the above.

I do ONE thing before I hit "go".  It's not about being confident ... because I'm usually a little nervous before I start.

What's the ONE thing I do?

I make a commitment to talking about ONE THING and ONE THING ONLY.  

For example, in this video, I told myself, Just talk about "COURAGE" and why it's always more important than "CONFIDENCE".

I told myself to have the courage to talk about the ONE THING I understand really well and talk about nothing else.  

Just hit "go" and say, "Somebody asked me about how I make videos".

And from there, I had to muster the courage to believe I knew the story.  I understand clearly how I learned that COURAGE always comes before CONFIDENCE.

So please, brother.

Stop hesitating, over-analyzing, swallowing your feelings and holding back.

Confidence is NOT coming to you until you decide to walk into the discomfort of just doing it.

In this video, I explain this concept and why your life cannot expand and your relationship will not improve until you muster the courage to do something uncomfortable.

You must THINK boldly about what you value and what you want. (we call it 'thinking the unthinkable')

You must SPEAK clearly about what you see and what changes you want for yourself the the life you want to live. (we call it 'saying the unsayable')

You must ACT unapologetically and become more of the man you want to be so you can knock down the fake walls in your way.  (we call it 'doing the undoable')

I promise you that confidence will unexpectedly build in your heart and you will wonder why you waited so long.