How to NOT Wind Up a Grumpy Old Man

Published: Sat, 01/31/26

Updated: Sat, 01/31/26

Hey brother,

This new video below about grumpy old men is a follow up to my last one called, "The Best Advice I Ever Got".

Here's why I won't let go of this important topic.

Most men read or listen to self-help crap without realizing that their head is getting swamped with "what to do" information. But, this information becomes totally useless in short order.

Why is that?

It's for two reasons.

Most short form self-help content teases you with "what you should do" garbage. It doesn't tell you precisely "how to BE different" at a deeper level.
Most of us guys think DOING things better will get us what we want. And it turns out that's utter BS.

That's what this video is about.

It's possible you don't need a coach, a therapist or an overly "helpful" wife to give you what you really need.

It's possible in only two short videos you are hit with a 2x4 of clarity that changes your entire thought process.

It's possible the confidence and courage you really need isn't a prescription of "doing shit right"... it's a sudden understanding of how you've been thinking about this all wrong.

Watch this first. Let's see if we can give you a whack with that magical 2x4 of clarity.

Here's a secret about coaching nobody talks about.

WE HAVE NOTHING TO GIVE YOU THAT YOU DON'T ALREADY HAVE INSIDE YOU.

That's why you can watch a video and experience it as something you think you've always known. It may even piss you off that you're having to hear the truth from me when you've known all along the deeper truth is already part of your inner wisdom.

Client: Would you tell me what time it is?

Coach; Sure thing. Would you hand me your watch for a second?

The actual value of coaching is simply having a man next to you who has traveled this dark road before. In fact, we've traveled this dark road so often it's not even scary. It's actually kind of funny.

And guess what?

All we do is take out a very strong flashlight and point into the darkness so you can see the truth. You already know what you really want. And you already know how you want to be.

You already know what time it is because you've already got the watch, silly.

Want to get started learning this stuff right away?

Do you want to think and speak with more clarity and confidence?

Do you want to FEEL more grounded, confident and amused with tough things you're facing?

Then, let's talk!

Free Call: If you're serious about building your masculine mojo then apply for a coaching call with us we will help you identify what to focus on and what to avoid to get you feeling confident again.

What You'll Actually Get From a Call With Us

Watch the short video above to find out what you get from a free coaching call with us.

As Teddy Roosevelt said:

“In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.”

Lotta love,

Steve & Dan

P.S. We are NOW taking deposits for the incredible and famous Confident Man Ranch Retreat in May, 2026.

This powerful experience may very well drastically improve the next 10 years of your life.

Why "famous"? Here is the GQ article that tells all about it.

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