Leading your relationship requires changing the way you think about each other, so you can change the way you feel about each other. Leading by example first and giving her something to follow.
I already know your objections.
I had the same ones.
"But what about HER thoughts?! All I read on her face is disappointment, disgust and rejection. She wants nothing to do with me. I think she must hate me."
Back to my horse analogy, brother.
The horse will ALWAYS project that crap when it experiences it from you first. When a horse feels fear and uncertainty it will always move away with a disgusted look.
And when the horse is seeing fear and
uncertainty in the person pursuing her...her fears are validated. She sees unpredictability, inconsistency and anger. She would be stupid to say, "Hey there, cowboy, climb aboard!"
And she's not stupid.
What next?
Next is you deciding whether or not you are going to change your thoughts and what you're broadcasting.
You'll need to decide to do it because it's not negotiable for you. You'll do it for YOU first...because of how you feel about YOU when you get back to that happy, confident, attractive guy with the sexy swagger.
With proper commitment to these changes and unwavering consistency I will guarantee you
that your mojo will soar.
And, yes, she will notice.
It's from there things can start changing in the romance and sex department.
Below are some options for you to get started right away...Leading your relationship requires changing the way you think about each other, so you can change the way you feel about each other. Leading by example first and giving her something to follow.
I already know your objections.
I had the same ones.
"But what about
HER thoughts?! All I read on her face is disappointment, disgust and rejection. She wants nothing to do with me. I think she must hate me."
Back to my horse analogy, brother.
The horse will ALWAYS project that crap when it experiences it from you first. When a horse feels fear and uncertainty it will always move away with a disgusted look.
And when the horse is seeing fear and uncertainty in the person pursuing her...her fears are validated.
She sees unpredictability, inconsistency and anger. She would be stupid to say, "Hey there, cowboy, climb aboard!"
And she's not stupid.
What
next?
Next is you deciding whether or not you are going to change your thoughts and what you're broadcasting.
You'll need to decide to do it because it's not
negotiable for you. You'll do it for YOU first...because of how you feel about YOU when you get back to that happy, confident, attractive guy with the sexy swagger.
With proper commitment to these changes and unwavering consistency I will guarantee you that your mojo will soar.
And, yes, she will notice.
It's from there things can start changing in the romance and sex department.
If you want to lead your relationship back to one of affecftion and easy intimacy then, let's talk...
