How To Get Your Mojo And Confidence Back

Published: Wed, 05/20/26

Updated: Thu, 05/21/26

Hey brother,

First, I want to invite you to our next group coaching call tomorrow, Thursday 21st May at 12pm mountain time.

The topic of the call is:

What is There AFTER Becoming a "Great Man"?

We're going to talk about:

Is "mastering" your masculinity the end of your journey?

What does it mean to transform from a DOING to a BEING mindset?

How does "conventional success" lead to emotional burnout?

What values do YOU have for defining "success"?

And what if you're tired of always having to focus on your purpose, mission or passion? What then?

This is going to be a great conversation! If you're looking for a new mindset to keep moving forward, you'll love this Roundtable session!

If this call sounds interesting to you, join our Men's Roundtable Group Coaching Community here.
(You'll also gain access to 7 years of recorded previous group coaching sessions and our private Facebook community).

Now onto today's newsletter...

*****

I recently took a trip back east to my old stomping grounds to spend time with two very good, old friends. We stayed on my buddy's huge boat near Ocean City, MD. It was to be a "boys weekend" just to relax and chill.

We spent the first night staying up drinking, playing guitar, telling stories and laughing until the sun came up. (thanks 5-hour Energy) The next days were more of the same.

I relaxed and I chilled out. Mission accomplished.

While it fed my need to relax, chill out and have some fun...it didn't feed my soul.

Why?

Because feeding our souls requires a little more discomfort.

It requires we push ourselves out into the deeper end of the pool. This where men feel the challenge to become stronger, clearer and more intentional with the act of living. This is where we feel more ALIVE and more CONNECTED to our personal power & self confidence.

Here's a picture of some men who feed my soul.

These guys spent a weekend with me at one of our retreats here in Colorado.

We DID relax, chill out and laugh a lot.

But, we also had an underlying expectation that we were here to open up, encourage, share and support each other. We each took charge of being interested in each other AND in making it the safest place on earth to be vulnerable.

It's not always comfortable. Meaningful exercise requires intentional effort. Growth doesn't happen in your comfort zone.

It's living in the shallow end of the pool - that comfort zone - that ends up killing off men much sooner than their female counterparts.

I talk more about why this is true in this video.

How To Get Your Mojo And Confidence Back

Seven Ways to Know You've Found a Good Men's Group

I'll just be blunt.

Most men need to seriously up the average of the men they choose to hang around. I spent way too many years without quality men in my life and played too long in the shallow end of the pool. I was drowning there.

Your top mission is to find at least ONE good man who can join you in your new Two Man Men's Group where you listen to each other and support and challenge each other too.

How do you know if you've found a good men's group?

1. There is lots of laughing

2. There is unbridled encouragement and support

3. The energy is always positive

4. You feel like you are really heard and seen

5. There's no whiny complaining, blaming and shaming going on

6. There's a mutual desire to connect, share and learn from each other

7. You feel energized - not drained - whenever you're together

Bonus: You feel happier, peaceful and more powerful than before you were with them.

In modern times, men have sadly become detached from other men of value and purpose. And their gathering places have vanished.

The Goodguys2Greatmen Roundtable membership was created for good men who answer a resounding YES to these questions:

Have you had trouble being open and honest with other men about your challenges?
Have you felt isolated and alone in your search for meaningful, mature, and trustworthy connections with other men?
Do you want a safe, welcoming, and wise community where you always have a seat at the table…no matter what you need to share?

Roundtable members get:

A clear and strictly enforced Code of Conduct to keep the group positive, focused, and productive.
Access to live 90 minute group coaching calls 3 times each month with me, Dan Dore and our other certified GG2GM coaches.
Recommended video and reading resources.
Personal challenge assignments to push you out of your comfort zone.
7 Years of recorded sessions to listen to.
Membership into an exclusive and private Facebook community with just Roundtable members. (More support is provided here.)

What makes us different?

This is an amazingly safe and positive place for strong, smart, and emotionally honest men who want more authenticity, openness, and trust in their friendships.
We speak to each other directly and openly with respect and admiration for each other’s unique journey and challenges.
We go DEEP into the nature of fear, insecurity, shame and the mental challenges of being consistently confident.
We help you smile at your self-creating stories of bullshit and challenge you to create the life and relationship you really want…without mind games or manipulation.
We give you practical, clear, straight-forward, realistic, and actionable advice and coaching.
We laugh…a LOT!

What you won’t find:

You won’t find negative, hateful language.
You won’t find a gender war – we don’t bash women.
You won’t find bitching, whining, complaining, and blaming.
You won’t find a group of men acting like victims.
You won’t find judgment or criticism from others.

*****

This email went a little longer than I planned.

You can tell I'm passionate about this group.

And I want you to try something new...something very different than what you've been doing.

Try it for a month - really jump in and join us. I think it will blow your mind.

Click HERE to sign up for you first month. You can cancel any time.

And if you have any questions about the Roundtable, just hit reply and I'll personally answer you.

And if joining a group of men feels too edgy for you right now, we have other options to support you:

Apply for a free coaching call with us - in one 90 minute call, we will help you get clear about what to stop doing that's keeping you stuck and circling through the same issues in life and give you options that will help you start feeling clear and confident about what to start doing to improve things tomorrow.

As Teddy Roosevelt said:

“In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.”

Lotta love,

Steve & Dan

************

Please know you are always in control of your subscription to this newsletter and the use of your email address. You signed yourself up and you can “unsign” yourself anytime you please by clicking the “Unsubscribe” link at the bottom of this email. I will always respect your privacy and personal data. You may email me directly if you ever have any questions or concerns about the use of your personal information.

Steven Horsmon

550 Drake Ranch Rd., Livermore, CO 80536, USA

Unsubscribe | Change Subscriber Options