Your story will not change until you create a new one.
Here’s the problem with us “hopelessly romantic and nostalgic” people.
We imagine a story that we wish to be true while we tolerate conditions in which
that story could never possibly happen.
Sometimes this means we are tolerating external circumstances and behavior that poisons our story.
And many times this means we are
tolerating our own fear and insecurity.
When we choose to tolerate our own fear and insecurity, we will always end up tolerating a story we don’t want.
This means that we must realize that the story you want could not possibly materialize unless you create it.
We create the stories we want by standing up for what we value, what we believe and what we non-negotiably and unapologetically demand for ourselves.
There is an important distinction there!
While we can have clear expectations of ourselves and for the life we wish to live, we cannot demand those from others…and we can never control their desire
to share the story we want.
So…going all the way back to the top of the page…his story will never change unless he chooses to create a new one.
It's
actually funny to think otherwise!
This is hard and it takes brass balls and nerves of steel…otherwise known as self-respect and courage. Not all men can do it.
But you
can.
Once a man learns to stand up in his own worthiness and step into his courage, his self-confidence will grow so fast that he starts to see everything as FUNNY!
If you’re ready for someone to talk to - someone who has walked in your shoes and found the way through the mess then let's talk...
