What's different
about the Goodguys2Greatmen approach to helping men in their marriage?
A whole lot.
I believe we are the most impactful
and effective coaching resource for men who want to drastically transform themselves AND their romantic, sexual relationship with their wife.
Goodguys2Greatmen is first and foremost a MEN's community. We are professional coaches with specific training and dedicated experience to helping men achieve their deepest desires.
While other "save your marriage" programs touch on the superficial game of "re-attracting her", "killing her with kindness" and "changing the story in her head", we believe there is a much more important (and more effective) focus required.
Most men try to follow well-meaning advice for focusing their energy on their wife to establish the desired the trust, connection and attraction that they want in their marriage.
The problem with this approach is that it does nothing to address the ever-present issue of insecurity, anxiety and
fear which are vibrating in a man's soul every single day.
And a man who tries
to "game" his wife back into trusting and loving him again while he is insecure, anxious and scared will always fall flat on his face. Always.
And this automatically amplifies the level of his anxiety by a factor of TEN!
We know exactly how horrible it feels to be rejected and abandoned by a wife. We have felt what you
feel and have first hand experience with fighting the mind monkeys (insecure, anxious fears).
We have come face to face with the shame of failure and feeling too weak to keep our marriage together. THAT is what we address first. Only then can you begin learning how to improve your masculine frame so
you can consistently show up as a calm, confident man of emotional strength.
We teach you how to THINK first and then what to say and do to stop the smothering negative pressure which is slowly pushing her away.
We dive deep into
the male psyche and help you understand the power of a mature perspective and how that will help him be more compassionate, empathetic and vulnerable in ways that give you more strength than ever. THIS is the strength she most needs to experience from a man in order to trust him and to believe in his intentions.
The Goodguys2Greatmen philosophy and coaching approach is based on the
importance of LEADERSHIP. And here's the twist.
We teach you first how to LEAD YOURSELF...your thinking...your perspective...your emotions...and your behavior.
Why?
Because a man who hasn't learned how to lead himself in
every respect is not ready to lead anyone else. Period.
It is amazing to watch our clients learn this basic INTERNAL TRUTH truth and THEN watch them witness the changes in their EXTERNAL REALITY.
When a man changes how his masculine energy interacts with the world, the world begins to reflect the positive, loving nature of that
energy.
This includes his wife...his kids...his parents...his clients...and even his dog!
Bottom Line:
Be absolutely sure what a coach or training program is actually offering you. Do NOT buy claims of success rates.
It's critical you understand there are no "quick fixes". But the quickest approach to regaining your calm, confident, trustable and attractive frame is to focus on you...not
her.
Make sure you take time to speak with those you want to follow. They should be open hearted, transparent about their philosophy and process. And they should be GENEROUS WITH THE TIME in communicating with you long before you spend a penny.
A 15 minute taster session is a sign of someone who just wants to get your money, not understand your unique situation.
Your last big challenge is to actually DO something next. There's only so much hiding out you can do with your
phone Googling for help and insight.
One thing we know for sure is this.
Men who have the courage to take action and hold themselves accountable to personal change end up having the best lives.
They live in the moment and they don't fear uncertainty.
They laugh at life and they laugh WITH the unpredictable nature of women. They are no longer
scared.
And from a core of emotional strength and security, they are fearlessly FREE TO LOVE out loud without the anxiety
of conditions and expectations placed on others.
This is exactly what we do. And we would be honored to do it with you. This is because we know you inside out...because we ARE
you, brother.
Reach out using this application form and prepare
for a conversation of a lifetime. I promise you'll feel better by the end of it.
Or choose from one of the options below to start leading the change in yourself that creates a change in your
relationship:
