Has The State Of Your Marriage Got You Down In The Dumps?

Published: Wed, 10/08/25

Updated: Wed, 10/08/25

Hey brother,

I'll keep this really short today.

I want you to know I see you and I hear you.

And if you're a guy who is living on the edge of separation or divorce, I know all about the deep, dark feelings of emotional pain and potential loss of everything you thought was your life.

Feelings of rejection, regret, guilt, shame, jealousy and anger keep taking their turn beating you up. Yeah, it's a thing...and every man I know in that position feels all of those every day.

You feel like you'll never live, laugh and love the way you always believed you would.

I'm here to tell you to just stop it.

It's simply not true.

Yeah, your thoughts are powerful and convincing. But I know something that maybe you don't...yet.

You can't believe everything you THINK or everything you FEEL.

Most of it is LIES...damn lies.

The only way I know to shake myself and others like you out of the funk is to do something new...something strangely uncomfortable.

And THAT thing is to open your freakin' heart up to other men who are CARBON COPIES OF YOU.

That's right, you're a cliché.

And the only way to NOT be a cliché is to make a choice to do something that clichés never do.

You WILL live, laugh and love again...no doubt.

But you will need to start changing the toxic thinking patterns that have you convinced otherwise.

I had to force my sick ass self off the couch to make this video for you. Sorry about the snotty nose. It was hard...but brother...we can do hard!

Has The State Of Your Marriage Got You Down In The Dumps?

I'm challenging you to do something new, different and weird.

Join a community of men who get you and have been through what you're facing now.

Your life will change for the better. We guarantee that will happen no matter what the final outcome is for your marriage.

In fact, by participating in our online community and live meetings, you WILL begin to feel alive again, amused again and loved again.

It's easy to do...

...And, it's easy to NOT do.

Our coaching is designed to give you back your calm, confident, happy swagger again. Remember that guy?!!

Here's a common question we get about our coaching:

How can I know if it's already too late for me and doing this coaching program would just be a waste of time and money?

Good question. We always want to be honest with you and not make promises we can't guarantee to deliver on. Clearing the wreckage of your particular life and relationship challenges may not be possible.

It could be that your wife is so emotionally and mentally unhealthy that she's entirely unwilling and incapable of being the partner you want in your life.

It's also possible she is so totally done and checked out that she has a brand new life planned that doesn't include you.

And it's possible that YOU may become so clear and confident in what you expect of yourself and for yourself that you're the one who decides to move bring this episode of your life to a loving close and move on to create what you really want.

The bigger point is this...

If your instincts tell you there is something still worth working for then you must do this work.

And guess what? We know that even if your chances of saving this version of your marriage are low...you must do this work!

Every single man we coach who has done this work, but couldn't save his relationship, discovers something amazing. He didn't die! Not only that, he's now thriving like he would never have imagined.

So what are YOU going to do now?

Do you want to face this period of challenge in your life alone or would you like to get to know some of the most kind hearted, generous, loving and confident men who know exactly what you're facing and want to help support you through it?

$149 One-Time Payment: The Goodguy2Greatmen 3-Step Emergency Triage for You AND Your Marriage - if you need an instant change in your life and relationship Dan and I created our most powerful short course to help you start feeling more calm and confident and to know what actions to take to start changing your circumstances.

Free: If you're serious about building your masculine mojo then apply for a coaching call with us we will help you identify what to focus on and what to avoid to get you feeling confident again.

What do I mean by "SERIOUS"?

We take YOU and your struggles seriously...because we've been there
We know living in a cold, distant, loveless marriage is serious
And we know a lack of clarity about how to change it is serious now and for your long term future happiness
We believe your personal emotional strength and well-being is serious
We seriously show up 110% to our conversations with you and expect you to be as serious as we are about changing your life

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As Teddy Roosevelt said:

“In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.”

Lotta love,

Steve & Dan

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