How to Know if You're Over-Complicating Your Problems

Published: Sat, 01/17/26

Updated: Sat, 01/17/26

Hey brother,

After 13 years and thousands of conversations with men who want solid solutions to their life and love problems, one simple TRUTH has emerged.

We over-complicate nearly every life and relationship problem we have.

Yep. We think every problem has multiple variables, different points of view and plenty of excuses and justifications.

Just stop there. It's not true.

The reason Goodguys2Greatmen has been so successful in creating happy, confident men is because we help you focus on ONLY what matters. Nothing else. And that's normally ONE thing - two at the most.

The most effective solution to your "complex" problems is almost always the simplest approach.

Why?

Because when you over-complicate shit your mind gets fuzzy, unfocused, uncertain and insecure. That the famous "hummigbird" we teach you about right from the start.

So. What now?

We want you to make a pledge for 2026 (not a resolution) to adopt a new lifestyle and approach to problem solving.

Do the simple thing. Do the ONE THING that will have the largest impact. Do ONLY that first. Do not waiver. Do not hesitate.

We are experts at helping you pinpoint exactly what the one thing is...so you can get started tonight.

Here's my first new video of the year. I want to meet you. I want you to jump into this community and stop over-complicating everything.

After that there is a smirk and a chuckle available if you're ready.

Occam's Razor: "When faced with competing hypotheses that explain the same phenomenon, the one with the fewest assumptions should be selected...entities should not be multiplied unnecessarily."

See? They've been talking about this since the 1300's!! I don't make this stuff up.

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As Teddy Roosevelt said:

“In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.”

Lotta love,

Steve & Dan

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