How To Stop Overreacting To Everything Your Wife Says

Published: Thu, 01/08/26

Updated: Thu, 01/08/26

Hey brother,

First, I want to invite you to our next group coaching call, TODAY, Thursday 8th January at 12pm mountain time.

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We'll be discussing:

The "perfect recipe" for f*cking up the coming year

Avoiding conflict and confrontation and quietly hating yourself

Living in your silly head instead of your loving heart

Not knowing or stating your core values and beliefs...out loud!

Allowing your "AI choices" to make you look and feel like a robot

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Now onto today's newsletter...

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This is the shortest newsletter I've ever sent.

It's about the power of brevity and the power of listening.

This is NOT about minimizing a woman's complaints or her endless venting about her day. It's NOT about how to dismiss people.

It's about how to have better relationships with virtually everyone.

It's about learning to RELAX with her. It's about seeing her.

It's mostly about listening and accepting her without an anxious need to solve her problem, fix her anger or make her "get to the freakin' point!".

This isn't easy if you're nervous or insecure.

It's impossible if you feel anger or resentment.

Watch this first. Laugh along with me. Then read on.

I know...you're still grinning.

Use that feeling of humor and insight to actually change how you are being.

Here's an example of how I use this secret power when coaching men.

How To Stop Overreacting To Everything Your Wife Says

Seven Days to a Better Relationship...with ANYONE!

Try it for yourself.

I guarantee not only will others FEEL your warm, attentive energy...I guarantee YOU will feel better.

"I understand" is the simple choice to keep listening.

It's the choice to keep present and connected.

It's about your curiosity to actually know more. You can also say, 'Tell me more."

And it's about your generous ability to let people talk about themselves and take yourself and your nervous energy out of the spotlight.

And that will feel amazing to both of you.

Try it for SEVEN DAYS with everyone you meet.

Then send me an email to tell me how it went.

How did it feel?

This is one of about 100 steps we teach men on their way to becoming "Mountain Lion" strong.

Cool, calm, confident. Heart beat around 40 bpm.

Unshakeable.

And unfuckwithable.

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As Teddy Roosevelt said:

“In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.”

Lotta love,

Steve & Dan

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