How To Stop Living With A Constant Fear Of Divorce

Published: Thu, 12/25/25

Updated: Thu, 12/25/25

Hey brother,

Only TWO THINGS can change your life as it is right this moment.

1. Something new comes into it without your permission.

2. Something new comes out of you from your INTENTION and ACTION.

Tell me something NEW that has come out of you lately.

What bold action have you taken lately to create a stir and shake up your life?

This email is about ACTION.

Today I'm not giving tips on what to do. I'm telling you the secret about HOW MEN ACTUALLY CREATE WHAT THEY WANT.

It's about putting away the books, videos and podcasts for awhile and turning all that "What to Do" knowledge into "How to Do It" ACTION.

It involves a little risk. A little bit of vulnerability. And a bit of being willing to face the unknown head on.

The good news?

Statistics are with you.

I've figured that about FIVE PERCENT of the adult male population makes it as far as you have.

The rest are waiting for something new to come into their lives. And they're feeling pissed, frustrated, angry, depressed and hopeless.

But you've made it past the barrier of fear.

You're here now and ready to take action.

Don't be like most men.

You read a book, watch a video or listen to podcast and get all AMPED UP for, oh let's say...about 4 hours.

Then what?

Nothing.

No action.

The sizzle fizzles.

The high is gone.

And NOBODY is around to see you slide back into your comfort zone doing nothing.

And you feel like shit for allowing it yourself.

I explain more in this video:

How To Stop Living With A Constant Fear Of Divorce

The biggest obstacle to a man getting what he wants, is to spend too much time thinking about it and not taking action

Confidence Is Not A Prerequisite To Taking Action…It’s A Result.

This is why I recommend that you slow way down on the videos and self-help books until you’ve actually implemented ONE IDEA you’ve learned so far.

Don’t get tangled up in self-help hell. 90% of the stuff we read is saying the same thing.

The missing link is action.

And if you think your NEXT action step is to talk with someone who can help you, then do it.

There are people who have done what you want to accomplish and it’s not weak to ask them for help.

They’ve already made the mistakes necessary to help you avoid them.

Here at Goodguys2Greatmen we give away tons of free consultation calls every month for men who are ready to take action and try something new.

I can make a guarantee for you right now. I guarantee that the discomfort level of whatever relationship or marriage nightmare you’re experiencing will be reduced from Level 10 to Level 5 in ONE HOUR.

I know this because I know when you speak to someone who has been in your shoes your fear and loneliness level always drops about 50%.

And we can help you get very clear on what action you want to take to start feeling like you're moving forward again and regaining a little self respect and confidence again.

If you're ready to start turning all your information into action then below are 4 ways to get started today:

$149 One-Time Payment: The Goodguy2Greatmen 3-Step Emergency Triage for You AND Your Marriage - if you need an instant change in your life and relationship Dan and I created our most powerful short course to help you start feeling more calm and confident and to know what actions to take to start changing your circumstances.

Free Call: If you're serious about building your masculine mojo then apply for a coaching call with us we will help you identify what to focus on and what to avoid to get you feeling confident again.

What do I mean by "SERIOUS"?

You will finally be listened to and taken seriously
You will get at least ONE serious insight or realization that clears your thinking
You will get at least ONE clear thing to do differently immediately after the call
You will feel at least 50% better and more confident in 60 minutes than you've felt for the last 60 days.
You will feel courage to take the next steps forward to keep your positive momentum

Free Guide: Where You Should Focus To Grow Your Masculinity

**Special Holiday Offer $250: How to Defuse the Divorce Bomb is a self-paced course with me, Tim Wade, and a community of men learning how to lead when you've just heard, "I love you but I'm not in love with you" or "I want to separate or divorce."

As Teddy Roosevelt said:

“In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.”

Lotta love,

Steve & Dan

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Steven Horsmon

550 Drake Ranch Rd., Livermore, CO 80536, USA

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