First, I want to invite you to our next group
coaching call today, Thursday 4th December at 12pm mountain time.
The topic of the call is:
How to Know if a "Gray
Divorce" is in Your Future?
We'll be discussing:
What's really going on with the increase in "late in life" divorces?
Are women to blame for the whole cultural change? Why does it seem easy for them?
Are there "new rules" for keeping a marriage happy and healthy...or do they even matter?
What would it take for YOU consider ending a relationship? (your non-negotiables)
Are connection, emotional safety, vulnerability, leadership and variety still important?
How do you handle the FEAR of getting into a new relationship if you can't count on anything anymore??
This is going to be a great conversation! If you're looking for a new mindset to keep moving forward, you'll love this Roundtable session!
I want to warn you about something, it can happen to any of us when we get the first glimpse of the elusive thing we call MOJO.
When you take the leap of commitment into this work of learning (re-learning) the source of your masculine strength and
confidence, you feel REAL CHANGES in your belief in yourself. You get super clear, like never before, on what you want from yourself, from your life and from your relationship.
You feel stronger than ever before.
You feel bold and courageous.
Sometimes for the first time ever.
It's not an aggressive strength. It comes from a place of vulnerability, honesty, empathy and compassion you haven't allowed to surface
before.
And this is where
you may make the big mistake.
Excitement and urgency fills your veins. You want the world to see the emerging new you. You want to talk about it and patch up old hurts and mistakes...quickly.
You want your woman to feel your changes
like you do and you want her to acknowledge them. You feel like you're finally on the right track and you want her to join you.
Slow down, brother. Breathe. Relax.
You've only reached the "launching point" of your new mojo. It's powerful and it's tempting to go full throttle.
But you're not ready for that yet. Neither is she.
You need to settle into it and practice. Walk before you run.
Spend time with the men and sharpen your understanding and application of your
new power. Make it real for you and be consistent.
Your question may be, "How long will it be before I start seeing changes in her and my relationship?"
Nobody knows the answer to that right now.
You must trust that you are on the right path and no matter what happens, you've found the most important key to your happiness and well being. And this is your mojo.
Your good will come. Promise.
I explain more in this
video: