How To Become A More Attractive Man (Guaranteed To Improve Your Relationship)

Published: Thu, 06/05/25

Updated: Thu, 06/05/25

Hey brother,

First, I want to invite you to our group coaching call today, Thursday 5th June at 12pm mountain time.

Let's talk about how to be LESS OFFENDED, LESS INSULTED AND LESS EMASCULATED

This meeting is about developing a sense of self respect that is so solid that you become UNFUCKWITHABLE!

Definition of Unfuckwithable:

The term "unfuckwithable" describes someone who is mentally or emotionally strong, confident, and resilient, to the extent that they cannot be easily swayed, manipulated, or disturbed by outside influences or criticism. It refers to an individual who possesses unwavering self-belief and inner strength, making them unable to be defeated or threatened. Being unfuckwithable also means staying true to oneself and not being swayed off one's chosen path, no matter what challenges arise.

Why do we care so much about what others think, say and feel about us?
How do we distance our emotions from the dependence on external approval?
How to respond to someone who CLEARLY DOESN'T RESPECT YOU?
Why it's so hard to stay in your own lane when you don't really know where or what that lane is?

This is going to be a great conversation! If you're looking for a new mindset to keep moving forward, you'll love this Roundtable session!

If this call sounds interesting to you, join our Men's Roundtable here.
(You'll also gain access to 6 years of recorded previous group coaching sessions and our private Facebook community).

Now onto today's newsletter...

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There's a big problem with "conventional wisdom" like the great quote below:

"If you don't know where you are going, you'll end up someplace else"
~ Yogi Berra

Sure, it makes sense and even makes you laugh a little at how ridiculously OBVIOUS it is.

The problem is this.

Being crystal clear about who you are, what you want and where you're going is extremely rare.

This newsletter and 10-minute video will get you started in the subject of "The Basics of Being a Clear-Headed Man 101".

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The first thing we talk about with men in our courses, retreats and personal coaching programs is VALUES. Call them values, operating principles, commandments, standards, declarations or non-negotiables.

Whatever you call them, every man needs to be clear on his most basic personal expectations he has OF HIMSELF...FOR HIMSELF...and OF THE PEOPLE HE ALLOWS IN HIS LIFE.

Watch this video where I go into each of these areas and give you some examples of how some of my personal principles sound.

How To Become A More Attractive Man (Guaranteed To Improve Your Relationship)

These don't need to be framed and hung on your wall, but you do need clarity.

What happens to men who are fuzzy about their personal standards and expectations for their own life?

They adopt somebody else's.

It's plain and simple and enormously frustrating.

We become chameleons who constantly change our standards and expectations to please others.

We do it for validation and acceptance.

This leads to low-grade anger and resentment which then leads to a drop in confidence and self-respect.

And an angry man is a chronically unhappy man.

Ask me how I know this. ;^)

“Men are like steel. When they lose their temper, they lose their worth.”
~ Chuck Norris

That quote by Chuck Norris is an example of a personal standard. It's clear he values emotional strength and self-control.

It doesn't have to be complicated. The simpler the better.

Start small.

What is one standard, one personal expectation or meaningful mantra you will claim for yourself?

How will you be conscious and deliberate in the following days in living it?

And how will you make sure you stay clear, consistent and confident in your values?

The GG2GM coaching programs are powerful and personally challenging.

They are intensely focused on YOU and YOUR THINKING.

There are not for everyone. But they are perfect for the man willing to try something different...something strangely counter-intuitive.

If you're ready for a powerful and intensely personal conversation about where you want to go, we're ready. Get a comfy chair and a cup of coffee. This conversation is NOT a "taster session".

Fill out our contact form for a free, no strings, 60 minute deep dive personalized coaching session to help you slow down and identify what is really important for you.

Or try one of our other options to get the support you need at this time:

$149 One-Time Payment: The Goodguy2Greatmen 3-Step Emergency Triage for You AND Your Marriage - if you need an instant change in your life and relationship Dan and I created our most powerful short course to help you start feeling more calm and confident and to know what actions to take to start changing your circumstances.

Free: If you're serious about building your masculine mojo then apply for a coaching call with us we will help you identify what to focus on and what to avoid to get you feeling confident again.

What do I mean by "SERIOUS"?

We take YOU and your struggles seriously...because we've been there
We know feeling lonely and unloved in your life and marriage is serious
And we know a lack of clarity about how to change it is serious now and for your long term future happiness
We believe your personal emotional strength and well-being is serious
We seriously show up 110% to our conversations with you and expect you to be as serious as we are about changing your life

Free Guide: Where You Should Focus To Grow Your Masculinity

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$497 One-Time Payment: How to Defuse the Divorce Bomb is a self-paced course with me, Tim Wade, and a community of men learning how to lead when you've just heard, "I love you but I'm not in love with you" or "I want to separate or divorce."

As Teddy Roosevelt said:

“In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.”

Lotta love,

Steve & Dan

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