The
big secret to getting out of Phase III in your marriage is to realize that everything you've learned to this point is exactly what will keep you stuck here.
As
I taught you in the video above, I want you to try something NEW for a change.
Give it 7 days and hold yourself accountable to consistency!
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Don't overreact or raise your voice no matter what. Don't take things so personally
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Listen more and talk less
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Stop trying to "be right" about stuff and refuse to argue about stupid things
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Take care of yourself by exercising, connecting with friends and finding something...ANYTHING...to laugh
about
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Stop looking to your wife for signs of approval or admiration
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Admire yourself and approve of who you are and how you're being.
I
really want to know how it went for you. Seriously! In 7 days I'll look for an email from you to let me know how you're doing.
And
more than I care about her reaction to you,
I want to know how YOU felt about YOU while you were doing it.
If
you can start feeling better about YOU and how you're showing up in your relationship you will have taken the first big step in the journey to getting to Phase IV.
Do
you want to learn more about how to get to Phase IV?
Do
you want more respect, admiration and intimacy?
If
so, I want you to sign up for a "free, no strings, personalised coaching session" with me, Dan or one of our certified coaches.
It's
a real conversation. You get to talk and be heard, seen and understood like never before.
You
won't be constantly interrupted while you're explaining how you feel. Some guys say this one call is more valuable than 12 marriage counseling sessions.
These coaching
calls are intensely focused on YOU and YOUR THINKING.
There
are not for everyone. But they are perfect for the man willing to try something different...something strangely counter-intuitive.
If
you're ready for a powerful and intensely personal conversation about where you want to go, we're ready. Get a comfy chair and a cup of coffee. This conversation is NOT a "taster session".
