And
that was the beginning of a new conversation in my head.
Nobody
ever asked me that before and really cared about my answer.
I
was never challenged to clearly define ME.
What
do I believe? What do I stand for? What are my unique and inherent strengths? What scares me? What are my bad habits? What am I willing to do that nobody else will to do get what I want.
And
most importantly, he kicked my ass to get very clear about
the
powerful story
of what I want to create for my life before my brain turned to mush. (I thought a coach would be "nicer", but he wasn't my friend, he was there to challenge my thinking)
It
was a long overdue ass-kicking. And the process of getting CLEAR wasn't easy. I began to see my habit of avoiding things that aren't easy.
But when I got clear...I mean really clear...the doubtful, fearful voices began to change.
And
it wasn't motivational poster crap like, "You're so awesome!"
When
I got clear about my true capacity to organize, initiate, follow though, create and connect with people I care about the new voices would say:
"Well,
if not YOU...then WHO?"
Who
was more ready, more qualified and more passionate than I was to become who I wanted to become?
Nobody.
That's who!
If
you've ever wondered what Goodguys2Greatmen does for men, it's essentially just that.
We teach you how to change your thinking so you can finally carry yourself as the creator, master and commander of your own life...no
matter what is happening around you.
In
other words, YOU happen to life. Not the other way around.
I
recorded this video when I had just got a new dog and it occurred to me that "Jace" didn't know who the hell he is yet.
