How Your Insecurity Sublty Damages Trust & Connection In Your Marriage

Published: Wed, 08/27/25

Updated: Wed, 08/27/25

Hey brother,

First, I want to invite you to our next group coaching call tomorrow, Thursday 28th August at 12pm mountain time.

We're going to talk about the disgusting taste of RESENTMENT and how to stop allowing it to linger on your tongue and taint all the interactions in your relationships.

What resentments are YOU struggling with specifically?

What nasty, ugly thoughts do you have in your head about her?

What if you could choose to do the OPPOSITE of resenting...and what would THAT look like?

What simply CANNOT HAPPEN for you if you hold onto resentment?

This is going to be a great conversation! If you're looking for a new mindset to keep moving forward, you'll love this Roundtable session!

If this call sounds interesting to you, join our Men's Roundtable here.
(You'll also gain access to 6 years of recorded previous group coaching sessions and our private Facebook community).

Now onto today's newsletter...

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Have you ever said, "I love you." like it was a question?

Have you ever waited impatiently and expectantly for a "return volley"...to receive an enthusiastic "I love you too!" back?

Have you ever felt like you're in a one person tennis game where you keep sending (giving) bids for connection or acknowledgement only to hear crickets?

Welcome to the rough and tumble life of being a man. We get it.

You might ask, "Am I NOT ALLOWED to want reciprocation...mutual participation in my relationships?"

Yes, absolutely.

You're even allowed to EXPECT to be in healthy relationships with people who want a healthy relationship with you.

We want you to be very, very clear about what you want and why you want it.

But...when we are feeling insecure and impatient, we tend to SABOTAGE the very thing we want by attaching strings to

every little thing we give to others.

We apply the subtle, hidden pressure of external expectations and chronic disappointment on the people with whom we most want to connect.

How do you become more grounded, confident and secure in giving love and connection without strings and offering your love in a more authentic...and ATTRACTIVE way?

You have to listen to this conversation. We know exactly what you may have been going through lately!

How Your Insecurity Sublty Damages Trust & Connection In Your Marriage

Are you ready to learn how to become a man who stays calm in tense situations and knows how to create connection whenever and wherever he wants to?

Choose from one of the options below to get started:

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Free: If you're serious about building your masculine mojo then apply for a coaching call with us we will help you identify what to focus on and what to avoid to get you feeling confident again.

What do I mean by "SERIOUS"?

We take YOU and your struggles seriously...because we've been there
We know a lack of warmth, kindness and affection in your marriage is serious
And we know a lack of clarity about how to change it is serious now and for your long term future happiness
We believe your personal emotional strength and well-being is serious
We seriously show up 110% to our conversations with you and expect you to be as serious as we are about changing your life

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As Teddy Roosevelt said:

“In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.”

Lotta love,

Steve & Dan

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