Hey brother,

Before I get started, I was wondering if you knew about this article GQ Magazine wrote about our Confident Man Ranch Retreat.  It was certainly a highlight for Tim Wade and I as we look forward to our October 5-8 retreat. 

Check it out!

In the 2.5 minute horse demo video below I am revealing some of the most important secrets our dad's never told us!

Seriously, this strange "rule" is common with most women you will ever meet.  And they simply don't get why we don't get it.

What's the rule?

Don't PRESSURE me!

I know.  No sh*t, right?  Everyone knows that.

But do they really?  

Do you really understand the 1000 ways women can feel pressure that results in a reaction to move away from you, avoid you or even retaliate?

They didn't choose to be this way.

They've been socialized, culturalized, and biologically wired to sense pressure...(aka. danger, discomfort, and threat)

One part of the Strange Rule is about how they PERCEIVE YOU AND YOUR OWN SENSE OF CONFIDENCE.

You can focus on DOING all the right things that should result in attraction, closeness and intimacy.  And you will still be applying pressure if you are DOING those things from a place of anxiety, tentativeness or fear.

What's better?

Learning to BE more grounded, calm, confident and CONSISTENT in your energy and your own sense of amused contentment...that's what.

If you can learn this and focus on simply BEING that man, I guarantee you that your life will change for the better.

This is NOT about tricking her or manipulating her!

It's about finding the peace, calm and confidence in yourself that will make her WANT TO BE NEXT TO YOU. 

• If you have the problem of emotional distance, this stuff will help you create more connection.

• If you have the problem of distrust or disrespect, this stuff will build more trust and kindness.

• If you have the problem of physical avoidance and rejection, this stuff will change your life.

How do I know this?

Because the men who have attended our first 14 Confident Man Ranch Retreats report back all the time!

They talk about how THEY have changed.  They share breakthroughs in their own calm, consistent confidence and positive energy.

And they tell us all kinds of positive stories about how this has changed their relationship for the better. 

And then they always add, "And I'm a better leader at work and my kids are responding to me like never before!"

I'm not making this stuff up.  It's the secret sauce that most men will never learn.

Only certain types of guys succeed at this.

• It's the ones who gather the courage the DECIDE to do the work.
• It's the men who decide they can do "hard" and they come to the retreat.
• And THEN they find out there is nothing really "hard" about this at all. It's a simple, but powerful, shift in your mindset.

This is nothing but fun! We will give you "thinking skills" that will liberate you from the conventional relationship struggles most men die with.

Don't be that guy.

This is exactly what we help you learn and embrace at The Confident Man Ranch Retreat.  

We have designed an incredible experiential process that wakes up your masculine core.  And when you do this with great horses and other great men, you actually change your perspective in a few short days!

Watch me demonstrate some of the skills with Paco in this video.  (Yes, I did this video last January.)

Every man who returns home from our Confident Man Ranch Retreat comes home with a new super power.

• It's the power to self-regulate his anxiety.
• It's the power to remain self-aware and choose calm responses instead of knee-jerk reactions.
• And it's the power to see what's really happening in the emotions of other people from a place of calm, confident empathy.

And that is like MAGIC.

Do you want that?

The next Confident Man Ranch Retreat is on 

October 5-8, 2025 

We have 3 SPOTS LEFT!

I want to sit next to you by the fire and talk.

I want you to consider doing something outrageous. Something totally off the board.  Something unexpected and possibly a little "selfish".

I want you to give yourself the PERFECT opportunity to be around men like you...to BECOME a calm, confident, and emotionally courageous man.

This is our 15th Ranch Retreat at Sylvan Dale Ranch in Loveland, Colorado.  And we know one thing for sure about this retreat.

It permanently changes you.  It changes your sense of self-respect.  It changes your sense of purpose.  It changes your style of leadership.  

It changes your life the moment you return home and walk in the door.

Why?  How?

Because YOU change your view of yourself.  You change your perspective about your wife and marriage.  You change the way you THINK and RESPOND to everything...including your "Not Okay" wife.

You end up TAKING THIS MINDSET BACK TO YOUR REALITY.   And then your "reality" actually changes.

If you are ready for that, it's time to save your spot for this October's retreat.

If you would like a 20 minute chat with me to talk about whether or not this is for you, just hit reply now.  You can do this!

Click on the link below to reserve your spot with a deposit.

The pictures on this page are amazing!

The October 2025 Confident Man Ranch Retreat in Loveland, Colorado

Lotta love, brother,

Steve

P.S.  Warning: Ranch meals are hearty. You might gain 5 lbs.