How Unresolved Disappointment Smells Up Your House AND Bedroom

Published: Sun, 07/13/25

Updated: Sun, 07/13/25

Hey brother,

Each year I climb a ladder and shoot this video with the hummingbirds.

The message?

Simple.

At your core...at your best...in your most NATURAL moments of confidence...you are NOT a hummingbird!

The Masculine Energy That Repels Intimacy

But...sometimes you are. And so am I.

Why?

Because restless, anxious, nervous, reactive, agitated feelings can broadside you in a flash.

Why?

Because those FEELINGS come from silly stories, miserable mind movies, and negative thoughts that simply fly into your mind to mess with you.

And they aren't even TRUE. They aren't even YOUR thoughts!

This "hummingbird" energy is what ruins your marriage, your sex life and the peaceful, content sense of well-being you crave.

And guess what?

We do it to ourselves. We make poor choices that make life suck. We avoid making decisions for fear of the consequences.

We shoot ourselves in the foot...which is really good news.

Why?

Because that means you can UNDO IT for yourself!

I LOVE helping you UNDO the self-inflicted sense of unhappiness, disappointment and dissatisfaction that follows you around like a silent fart.

You can smell it on yourself. And so can everyone else.

So, let's fix that shit. Seriously. Don't waste another year of your life thinking you can get away with silent farts.

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As Teddy Roosevelt said:

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Lotta love,

Steve & Dan

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