Men Crave Release
Men have an insatiable, deeply rooted, force inside them for RELEASE.
Release from:
- Emotions
- Obligation
- Constraint
Call it freedom. Call it "zoning out". It points to man's deep desire to have NOTHING needing his energy.
For him, a space of NOTHING equals peace, unlimited creative potential, and love.
He works and fixes to be RELEASED from those things.
He turns to
intimacy to RELEASE his tension & stress.
He stares at his phone to feel NOTHING.
What do most men hang on the wall as bachelors? NOTHING.
A man can never have enough FREEDOM ...He will always seek further release from any chains that hold him.
A mature man knows this about himself.
He understands that he cannot
create what he wants if he lets his desire for NOTHING dominate his life.
He learns to sit with his drive for release.
Like shifting a transmission from neutral, he deliberately engages to create what he
wants.
Women Crave to Be Filled
Women, by contrast, have an insatiable, deeply rooted force inside them to be FILLED.
She FILLS her bookshelves.
She FILLS her shoe closet.
She FILLS her life with human connections.
She FILLS her home with children, pets, pictures, and plants.
She turns towards intimacy to be FILLED by your love.
She loves to be FILLED with affirmations, gifts, and support.
When she's sad, she fills
herself with ice cream, fills her time, or looks for someone to fill her heart back up.
A mature woman understands that she will never feel like anything is enough.
Her man will never be present enough.
Her closet will never be full enough.
There will never be enough words of affirmation to sedate her craving for MORE.
This is why jumping
through her hoops only leads to more hoops.
The gift of her being this way is that beauty only exists through contrast.
If you’re both the same, there’s no color, no magic.
The Trap: Jumping Through Her Hoops
Now you see the cycle: You try to give her more...
More vacations. More compliments. More dates.
But it’s never enough.
So what should you do?
She’s not asking for more stuff.
She’s
craving the feeling of being held by something stronger than her need to be filled and who can empathize with what it's like to have that need.
She needs a man who can see past her drive for more and show compassion for her struggle.
As the leader in your relationship, she must encounter your boundaries.
Not "nothingness"... structure.
Most men don't use boundaries correctly.
They set them to protect their triggers, not their values.
They use boundaries to try to control outcomes or change their wife's behavior.
That's not
leadership, that's being reactive and controlling.
How To Set Strong, Healthy Boundaries And Stop Jumping Through Her Hoops
In the Vital Formula to Masculine Confidence Course, we teach you how to create laser-specific boundaries that protect what’s vital to your power and well-being.
No one wins
a game without rules.
Boundaries aren’t there to please your wife, they’re there to ground her.
She can’t open to you emotionally if she doesn’t trust your backbone.
If you don’t trust your own strength, neither will she.
You can't engage to create what you want if you only know what you don't want.
We’re looking for 8 men who are serious about becoming clear, confident boundary-setters this summer.
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Course sessions will run at 5:00 PM Pacific on:
~ July 19th
~ Aug 2nd
~ Aug 16th
~ Aug 30th
Bonus Segment!!
“How to face uncertainty with clarity and decisiveness”.
I know it’s summer.
It's easy to put something like this off.
But men always say, “Why didn’t I do this sooner??” once they join.
Your marriage won’t improve because you’ve planned a great family vacation.
Doing more around the
house won’t help either.
Be a man with no regrets this summer!
Gaining calm, clear, decisive behaviors are mandatory for a committed relationship to work.
That’s why this round of the course includes the SPECIAL segment about facing uncertainty with clarity.
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