How To Ignore The Noise And Make The Next Year Your Best Yet

Published: Sat, 06/21/25

Updated: Sat, 06/21/25

Hey brother,

Last night I made this video for you...and me.

Mostly for me...but I'm inviting you to come along with my personal wish for an amazing next 12 months.

You see, most people are dreading the next 12 months for various reasons.

And almost all of those reasons are things over which they have ZERO CONTROL.

I want better. I want YOU to want better.

Let's assume we both just found out we only have 12 months left to live.

Yeah, that's a little dark. But let's have fun. Let's assume for a minute that we've got a year left to have the most incredible time of our lives.

What's your next move?

Here's what I'm going to try. I have total control over THIS.

How To Ignore The Noise And Make The Next Year Your Best Yet

Here's My Plan

Just so you don't have to take notes during the video, here is my 12 month plan.

Connection with others instead of competition against others
Eye contact and nothing but enthusiastic, firm handshakes
Be the first one to initiate ANYTHING I really want to do or have
Be present - treat others like they are the only ones in the room
Be more interested in others than trying to be interesting
Notice what is going RIGHT instead of what I THINK is wrong
Focus on what I want to CREATE instead of worrying about what I don't want or don't have
Live each day this year AS IF I know my last day alive is less than 12 months away

Here's How I Might Screw It Up

If I can stay aware and stay awake, I just might avoid these common traps...on most days.

Getting sucked into stupid fights, arguments, debates and conversations
Trying to win or be right instead of simply understanding
Seeing love, romance and sex as a limited resource or worse...a competition
Overly focused on what I'm DOING instead of how I'm BEING
My old bad habits I hate will triumph over the new habits I want
I will forget how much damn power I have in my desire, my focus, my intention and my commitment to tiny consistent steps toward what I want to create

So there you have it. A Goodguys2Greatmen plan to make this next year the best damn year you've ever had.

It's a plan that can't fail, unless of course we screw it up.

Let's not do that.

Let's not let the next 12 months "happen to us"...instead let's "happen to the next 12 months".

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What do I mean by "SERIOUS"?

We take YOU and your struggles seriously...because we've been there
We know the constant noise and opinions being broadcast at you is serious
And we know a lack of clarity about how to change it is serious now and for your long term future happiness
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As Teddy Roosevelt said:

“In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.”

Lotta love,

Steve & Dan

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