How To Know If Your Marriage Is Worth The Effort

Published: Fri, 02/07/25

Updated: Fri, 02/07/25

Hey brother,

Men have a way of judging the quality of their day by what has happened in their day.

If "things are going our way"...it's a "good day". If they're not...it's not.

Sometimes we use our "feelings" or even our physical state to decide whether or not our day sucks.

And when it comes to your intimate relationship, a "good day" happens mostly when she's happy, and more importantly, happy with you!

If a man waits for a "good day" based on his wife's state of happiness with him, he will mostly likely have a very bad year.

And he will likely "think" his marriage sucks.

Watch my new video for a new perspective about shifting your perspective. This is a critical man skill, brother.

How To Know If Your Marriage Is Worth The Effort

To be more childlike, you don't have to give up being an adult. The fully integrated person is capable of being both an adult and a child simultaneously. Recapture the childlike feelings of wide-eyed excitement, spontaneous appreciation, cutting loose, and being full of awe and wonder at this magnificent universe.
~ Wayne Dyer

Your Assignment for the next 7 days...

Be more child-like.
See the humor in everything.
Find the lightness in anything that appears to be dark.
Don't believe your own bullshit thoughts or your own silly feelings. Choose to see the softness and the pain in those who piss you off.
Be kind to yourself and do something nice for just you.

And STOP this stuff...

Stop looking for what's wrong...find what's right.
Stop allowing sucky thoughts to create a sucky day.
Stop assuming the worst in others...give automatic benefit of the doubt.

Here's another way to not have a sucky day...ask for some support from someone who has walked in your shoes and found the way through the mess...

$149 One-Time Payment: The Goodguy2Greatmen 3-Step Emergency Triage for You AND Your Marriage - if you need an instant change in the way you're feeling, Dan and I created a short, powerful course covering the core foundational concepts hidden within every self-help book, course or program you'll ever buy.

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What do I mean by "SERIOUS"?

We take YOU and your struggles seriously...because we've been there
We know questioning whether this relationship is worth it daily is serious
And we know a lack of clarity about how to change it is serious now and for your long term future happiness
We believe your personal emotional strength and well-being is serious
We seriously show up 110% to our conversations with you and expect you to be as serious as we are about changing your life

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As Teddy Roosevelt said:

“In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.”

Lotta love,

Steve & Dan

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