"You Also Reap What
You Sow"
That's another good quote and an important point when it comes to setting boundaries.
We can't just go around declaring our boundaries and "teaching people how to treat us" if we're total dicks.
You're in no position to teach anyone anything until you've learned the lessons yourself
In the case of the criticizing wife, if you have been frustrated, argumentative and negative toward her behavior you're in no condition to start setting boundaries.
You'll need to slow down and reset yourself while gently bringing up the values you want for BOTH of you to start sharing.
The man in the video story figured this out early on and
he stayed patient, clear and proud of how he handled himself. That was the only reason his wife eventually changed her critical behavior toward him.
I want you to become a NINJA at this!
This isn't a secret trick or even a
"tool".
This is more than a mind set.
This is a LIFESTYLE of calmly knowing who you are, what you believe, what you want and how you're creating the life and relationship you want.
This is a lifestyle of less drama and less conflict...followed by more connection and more respect.
And when it comes to teaching you how to change yourself and your relationship "lifestyle" there is no better place to learn than with other men who know the way.
We want to meet you in person...share a meal...a fire...maybe a beer or two. There's so much we want to tell you about!
“The retreat was just what the doctor ordered – full of camaraderie, good food and drink, laughter, outdoors, and learning. Learning about horses, yes, but more importantly learning about myself, the importance of masculine connections, and the necessity of taking care of myself other than just physically.” Mike
C.
If you're ready to stop waiting for her to make things better and start taking action on what you can control, here are some ways we can help you start leading things
today...
