Why Doesn't She Treat Me How I Want to be Treated?
Answer: Because you're not so good at doing that stuff yourself.
I can't tell how much I resisted this idea. I'm no dummy and I think I had an open and shut case in my marriage.
I was a good person, a good provider, a good friend and I got all kinds of sh*t done. I was funny, not too fat and brushed my teeth AND flossed twice a day.
Yet somehow she failed to see the error in her ways of never giving me quite enough of everything I expected. What? Do I need to floss 3 TIMES a day? I mean...what is it?
Simple.
I sucked at being really good at all the things I expected her to give to me.
This is a simple concept everywhere else in life.
- If you want good service, be a good customer.
- If you want a good friend, be a good friend.
- If you want to be paid well, be more valuable than others doing the same work.
Therefore, if we want stuff like respect, appreciation, connection, adoration, trust, honesty, intimacy and passion we must learn how to BE those things.
We've grown up past the playground point of, "Well I will if SHE will."
You're either consistently BEING that kind of person or you're not.
And if you're not being that kind of person for yourself first, then marriage will feel like you're quarantined in a 24/7 shit show.
How would you like to change all that?
How would you like to be surrounded by hundreds
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This is not a time
to curl up in the Netflix nest and wait this thing out.
This is a time to lean in to uncomfortable reality that nothing will change unless you learn how to change...for YOU.
And guess what?
It's the most fun, energizing, mind blowing time a man can have. Well, if I'm honest, it's pretty close anyway.
If you're ready to stop waiting for her to make things better and start taking action on what you can control, here are some ways we can help you start leading things
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