Noun:  A person who seeks and struggles in all relationships to be liked, admired, desired and respected by doing, saying and agreeing to anything in order to get their needs met for validation, acceptance, approval and belonging. Often experiences quiet bouts with extreme anger, resentment and dissatisfaction.  Most common in marriages when a husband is hopelessly emotionally enmeshed with a distant or unhappy wife.

Don't worry.  If any of that stings, you're not alone.  

In fact, you're a cliché.  Join the club, brother!!  It's a result of the #1 human emotional disease.

You see, incurable people pleasers all have one thing in common.

Insecurity.

Insecurity maims and destroys all relationships, especially the most important one...the one you have with YOURSELF!

I've heard all the arguments with my assertion here.

"All people are hurt and insecure!  The best we can do is just try to help each other along the way!"  (bullshit)

"I wouldn't be insecure if only SHE treated me better!"  (bullshit)

"Nobody can really be self-reliant.  That's just being selfish, detached and controlling!"  (aaand....more bullshit)

Brother, I want better for you.  I want better for your FUTURE.  

I want you to discover the liberating and LOVING feeling of being a secure man.  

Secure men are the only ones who can be healthy friends, parents and partners!

I want you to feel so calm...so confident...so SECURE with yourself that you can finally begin to form a story of your future that excites you.

I want you to clearly see that people pleasing is just another way of being a second-class citizen in your own life.

I want you to STOP operating at the level of the lowest common denominators in your life...namely, insecure, unhappy people!

Sound good?

Now, the next obvious question is, "How the hell are you going to do THAT for me, Steve?!"

It's kind of like taking a really sick pet to the veterinarian.  You're scared as hell...worried to death...feeling hopeless. Your dog is paralyzed and acting like it's dying!

And then the vet takes 10 minutes and finds a tick in your dogs armpit. It was just "tick paralysis".  Happens ALL THE TIME. No big whoop.

And THEN, you exhale. You smile through your tears. You thank the vet profusely and pay the outrageous "office visit" fee.

Well, most of us guys have a form of "tick paralysis". But it's not an actual parasite.  

It's an emotional parasite called the 

"Insecure Thinking Syndrome"

And guess what?

We're really, really good at finding the tick in your armpit!

It's not a magic pill.  And it doesn't happen overnight.

But you WILL recover. Faster than most.

This is because we know precisely how to take YOUR UNIQUE SET OF CIRCUMSTANCES and help you see through the fog.  

You're also going to start laughing at your own bullshit! 

(and yeah, there are usually a few tears at this point too.)

Stay tuned for a brand new short course Dan and I are releasing on this exact thing.   It's short intensive training using the best of the best coaching we've ever done.   For some guys, it's the ONLY coaching they will need!

More on that soon.

You can start your journey to chronic happiness, confidence and self-reliance with us right NOW.

Here are some simple, achievable options I would like you to consider. You can do this...really.