That's right. Divorce filing statistics show that roughly 75% of all divorce filings in the US are filed by women.
Why?
It's very simple.
Some people try to explain it by saying women have no commitment, no honor, no integrity or no grit.
Others blame women for blaming men for everything including their daily sense of "happiness".
Here's the truth from MY statistics after 11 years of
this work.
Women simply trust their FEELINGS more than men do.
That's it.
More women file divorce than men because they have a MUCH MORE INTENSE RELATIONSHIP with their thoughts and their feelings than men do.
This gets misconstrued as a lack of commitment or honor.
Alison Armstrong has been a women's relationship coach for decades. She tries to help men understand this about women. She says, and I
paraphrase, Women have a deep instinct and commitment to their feelings. They are constantly reading their environment
and their relationship for security and safety.
If you can learn this now, you can begin to help her change her feelings toward you and your relationship.
When she senses a long term pattern of being insecure and unsafe, she will start saying things like:
- I don't feel connected with you
- You don't make me feel safe, heard or seen
- I think we need space apart so I can find myself
- I love you, but I don't feel "in love" with you
Sometimes she will start strange behaviors you haven't seen before.
Sometimes she will hang out with people who used to disgust her.
Sometime she just goes cold and gives you nothing but
one word responses.
And it's about this time most guys start getting really, really anxious.
Here's the deal brother. You're a cliché. And so is she.
This stuff happens in marriage every single day. Most men respond to it all wrong. Don't be a cliché.
Most men ratchet up the pressure and the demands for closeness.
Most men smother her with fearful questions and dramatic reactions.
Most men start arguing over the stupidest sh*t you can think of...just trying to get her to explain herself.
None of that works.
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It's simple. If you don't want to be a cliche, then do something totally different than what you've been doing.
