How To Handle Difficult Circumstances As A Mature Confident Man

Published: Mon, 04/21/25

Updated: Mon, 04/21/25

Hey brother,

First, I want to invite you to our group coaching call this Thursday 24th April at 12pm mountain time, the topic of the call is "How to THINK and FEEL Like a Happily Divorced Man (without actually having to get divorced!)"

In this call we will discuss:

Why HDM's are liberated from stress and suffering

50 Traits of the HDM - what are the TOP 3 you would love to achieve?

Why our happiness is MOST affected by our relationship status?

How does the HDM respond to poor treatment...bad attitudes?

How to share positive HDM energy and actually improve the lives of others

Read the article below and pick out the TOP 3 traits you would MOST LOVE to achieve. Think about the story behind why it's so hard to do...
Why Acting Like a Happily Divorced Man Can Save Your Relationship

This is going to be a great conversation! If you're looking for a new mindset to keep moving forward, you'll love this Roundtable session!

If this call sounds interesting to you, join our Men's Roundtable here.
(You'll also gain access to 6 years of recorded previous group coaching sessions and our private Facebook community).

Now onto today's newsletter...

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This email is short and sweet...and to the point.

The tensions building up around the world over politics, religion, and even relationships between men and women are easy to get sucked into.

I did this video to give you immediate support and perspective for maintaining your solid sense of manhood. It's actually a "coaching video" custom made for you if you want it.

Sometimes I'll paraphrase the videos I shoot so you can read it instead.

Not this time. I just let it fly in this video in a stream of consciousness. I speak fast and furiously. It wouldn't be the same if I typed it out.

While there are many forms of masculinity, I believe the most HEALTHY masculinity is a matter of who you are BEING.

So many caricatures of manhood have been shown in the TV and film world. You may think it's an "act". You may think it's a style or persona. You may think there's a script.

I believe the foundation of a cool, calm, strong, capable man is based first in his ability to model kindness, compassion and respect.

That's the first bit of coaching I give in this video when I explain what LEADERSHIP means when you're a healthy man.

Then I give you the next 3 key traits of a healthy, "real" man.

I hope you enjoy it as much as it did shooting it..

How To Handle Difficult Circumstances As A Mature Confident Man

"I don't need no stinkin' coach!"

I've had an number coaches in my life. Soccer, basketball, lacrosse and baseball were my sports. (note these all involve short sprints...short legs)

I even had a speaking coach and a training coach when I was doing teaching in the corporate world.

The idea of a "Man Coach" or "Relationship Coach" would have made me laugh out loud back then.

If you ever wondered what personal coaching felt like, looked like or sounded like, this video is a good example.

Actually we tend to listen more than we talk.

We listen to you YOU, your story, your challenges and your biggest desires. Then we ask you questions nobody has ever asked. Then we help you see a clear path to getting what you want.

I'm inviting you to a conversation to feel what it's like when YOU are the center of attention. Your needs and your fears. Your desires.

It's the deepest, most powerful and most intimate conversation you'll have all year.

You'll wonder why you can't talk like this with your wife. You'll wonder why you haven't been this open and emotionally raw with your kids.

Most guys say our deep-dive consultations are more valuable and ACTIONABLE than years of therapy or marriage counseling.

And that feels really good.

And I know you'll like it too. ;^)

There you go. A shameless invitation to connect with you.

No strings. No expectations. Just brotherhood and service.

Ready to try it out? Here are some options to get started with our coaching support for you...

$149 One-Time Payment: The Goodguy2Greatmen 3-Step Emergency Triage for You AND Your Marriage - if you need an instant change in your life and relationship Dan and I created our most powerful short course to help you start feeling more calm and confident and to know what actions to take to start changing your circumstances.

Free: If you're serious about building your masculine mojo then apply for a coaching call with us we will help you identify what to focus on and what to avoid to get you feeling confident again.

What do I mean by "SERIOUS"?

We take YOU and your struggles seriously...because we've been there
We know facing changing circumstances in your life is serious
And we know a lack of clarity about how to change it is serious now and for your long term future happiness
We believe your personal emotional strength and well-being is serious
We seriously show up 110% to our conversations with you and expect you to be as serious as we are about changing your life

Free Guide: Where You Should Focus To Grow Your Masculinity

$69 Monthly Subscription: Join Dan and I in our Men's Roundtable Group Coaching membership. We meet three times per month for live group coaching and we support you in a powerful group of men facing the same issues you are. Get instant access to 6 years of recorded sessions. Try it for one month. What have you got to lose?

$497 One-Time Payment: How to Defuse the Divorce Bomb is a self-paced course with me, Tim Wade, and a community of men learning how to lead when you've just heard, "I love you but I'm not in love with you" or "I want to separate or divorce."

As Teddy Roosevelt said:

“In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.”

Lotta love,

Steve & Dan

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