My name is Mark Drezga and along with my fellow GG2GM coach, Garrett Prettyman; we have created The Vital Formula To Masculine Confidence course to teach men that not knowing what is going to happen next is okay!
 
Many guys we meet struggle with letting go of their fears and insecurities. 
 

For soo long they have identified with being the:

• Stressed out guy at work
• Husband who is too tired to follow through with what he says he will do
• Impatient and unreliable dad
• Chronic complainer

The only thing worse than being any of these things is the realization that you wouldn't know who you'd be without them!
 
It's a trap that many of us have fallen into.
 
It's the default behavior for guys who haven't yet learned to meet their own needs in mature heathy ways, so they seek out validation, approval and acknowledgement by complaining. 

And it gets annoying, VERY quickly!

It's annoying for guys because it comes with feelings of being at the mercy of circumstance and everybody around them. 

And it annoys everyone else because it is what children do!
 
And yet we hold onto our fears and insecurities like a badge of honor. 

As if we're signaling to the world that we have it tough, and we're hoping life will cut us some slack.
 
We can be so afraid of the unknown that we will accept ANYTHING in life, as long as it's familiar. 
 
Being afraid of the unknown is normal.

Of course it is scary - it's unknown! 
 
Fear itself is not a problem. 

It's very helpful actually. 

It's when we find ourselves fighting for things that we don't really want then we need to take a pause and make a decision.
 
These decisions can only ever be made from a place of calm and clarity. 

Most people choose what is familiar over the unknown every time.

Except that it is not a choice. 

That is called a REACTION.
 
It is not a conscious decision. 

It is a product of fear and it always leads to resentment about having no control over what happens around them.
 
You only have control over ONE THING in life - YOUR actions.
 
Having a woman throw words like divorce, separation and child custody around can put the fear into any man! 

They are all things that you have very little control over, which means its SCARY!
 
Trying to stop them is akin to holding back a giant wave with a surfboard.

You can try, but you're better off using the board as a surfboard and riding the wave to wherever you end up.
 
Am I seriously saying that you shouldn't fight for your marriage?
 
I am not. 
 
What I am saying is that trying to stop things from happening is much less effective than making things happen.
 
"When life gives you lemons, lean back and squeeze that shit into your eyeballs. Then glare back at life and say, "that all you got?!"  -Mark Manson

Whether you are fighting to keep things from changing or are actively changing them yourself, you still only have control over one thing... your actions!
 
If you say things like:
-   "She isn't affectionate enough"
-   "She never wants to spend time with me"
-   "We don't have enough sex"
-   "She won't do any work to address HER issues"...

Then what is stopping you from:
-    BEING more affectionate
-    BEING the one to make time to be together
-    BEING the one to initiate sex more
-    BEING an example of someone that addresses their issues?
 
FEAR is stopping you.

You are afraid because you don't know how she'll react, so you keep doing what you have always done - getting the same results you have always gotten.
 
Rinse - repeat...
 
This what we want for you instead, brother.

Instead of fighting for what you don't want, why not start creating what you DO want? 
 
After being around confident and loving masculine men for a while, you can see how they do this. 
 
They don't sweat the small stuff. They take it in their stride. 

They don't crumble when things don't go to plan, because they know that plans are only ever a guide and not a guarantee as to how things will turn out.

They don't need to try and stop divorces or breakups, because they only have relationships with people that want to have relationships with them!
 
For most people, they would rather stay in a situation that they are familiar with than to do something new. EVEN if they know what they really want is on the other side of their fear.
 
There are times when life hands you a gift that you have no choice but to take.
 
Surrounding yourself with other men that are actively CREATING the life that they want is the first step to learning to do it yourself.
 
When you realize that you are and always will be okay, you start playing the game of life BOLDLY, CREATIVELY and with a PASSION that is infectious, attractive and energizing! 
 
Stop thinking that you can only be insecure because that's how you have been.

Stop letting the fear of doing things differently stop you from having a different life!
 
Garrett and I have been running and refining our course for several years now and what sets it apart is our approach to pushing you into your own growth.

The Vital Formula To Masculine Confidence Course has been designed to be a hands-on, supportive and challenging experience by two men who have gone through EXACTLY what you are going through.

This isn't a work-at-your-own-pace video course.

This is a real-time coaching adventure that will push you into scary territory, while giving you an instant support network of other men that will go through it with you.

We know what it's like to feel as though it's too risky to take drastic steps towards a different life.

We also know what it's like to NOT take those steps and try to keep everything exactly as it is and always has been.

It's time to stop playing small brother!