First, I want to invite you to our group coaching call this Thursday 13th March at 12pm mountain time, the topic of the call is "Why Your Thinking Can Be Your Best Friend or Your Worst Enemy!".
Watch THIS first...
You Are What You Think
- How to know if you’re anxious or just THINK you’re anxious
- Why your thoughts are always lying to you!
- How to better manage your thinking about your thoughts and STABILIZE your emotional roller coaster
- 4 Questions to help you lighten the f&ck up and create a better story
This is going to be fun! If you're looking for a new mindset to keep moving forward, you'll love this Roundtable session!
If this call sounds interesting to you, join our Men's Roundtable here.(You'll also gain access to 6 years of recorded previous group coaching sessions and our private Facebook
community).Now onto today's newsletter...
*****
Women's intuition is a thing, so why not take advantage of it instead of fighting it?
Here's the deal.
Your wife has a highly tuned sense of "smell" when it comes to her man's energy. I'm talking about your mood, your intentions and even your thoughts.
No, she's not a mind reader. It's much easier than that.
It's more like a
smell. And she trusts it.
Good moods, intentions and thoughts smell good...really good. They can lead to more trust, connection and intimacy. This is because the feel safe and approachable.
Bad moods, intentions and thoughts smell bad. Like a fart.
I often say the "Fart of Chronic Disappointment" is the #1 killer of intimacy and romance.
When our relationship starts a downward trend, so do we.
Our thoughts tend toward negative stories, judgments and assumptions.
These thoughts create feelings of agitation, anger and chronic disappointment. That "odor" is unmistakable to her.
And it kills all desire for closeness and connection.
If you could only
change the thinking, you could change the feelings...then you change the "odor".
It's that simple.
Now, let's be honest. I just made all
that up.
But, it's a helluva lot more empowering than believing nothing is going to change. If you want something to change, then think about changing the only thing that is actually under your control.
This video is about my simple trick to change your thinking and, thereby, eliminate The Fart of Chronic Disappointment.
