Hey brother,

This video with my horse, Chief, may be the most relaxing thing you'll experience today.

And, as you'll see, the whole freakin' point is that being CALM and DELIBERATE is the path to nearly anything you want to have or do.

You see, most of us get so wrapped up in our daily expectations of what needs to get done, what other people should be doing and what we want to get that we live in a perpetual state of urgency, anxiety and, at worst...chronic disappointment.

I'm here to tell you from experience that any man who lives in a state of chronic urgency, anxiety or disappointment isn't getting ANYTHING he wants...and I mean ANYTHING.

Even if he gets some crumbs of what he wants, he won't even notice.

So, when men tell me, "I want more intimacy!  I want more connection!  I want more affection!  I want more sex", I quietly nod and prepare to explain to him why that stuff is avoiding him.

And when he asks, "Why can't I find a job?" or "Why don't I have more friends?", I quietly nod and empathize with his frustration.

I once had a coach tell me directly, "Steve, you're just not yet the kind of man who gets those things."   (I wanted to tell him to f*ck off, honestly)

The solution to getting everything we really want is to become the kind of person who gets those things.  And this ain't something your dad taught you...I guarantee that.

In this new video, I explain what calm, deliberate and pleased looks, feels and sounds like.

I explain what "Slow is smooth and smooth is fast" really means in a practical sense.

I want this energy to become a NATURAL part of your masculine frame.  

I want you to be who you want to be so you can have what you want to have!

This is exactly what we help you learn and embrace at The Confident Man Ranch Retreat.  

We have designed an incredible experiential process that wakes up your masculine core.  And when you do this with great horses and other great men, you actually change your perspective in a few short days!

Every man who returns home from our Confident Man Ranch Retreat comes home with a new super power.

• It's the power to self-regulate his anxiety.
• It's the power to remain self-aware and choose calm responses instead of knee-jerk reactions.
• And it's the power to see what's really happening in the emotions of other people from a place of calm, confident empathy.

And that is like MAGIC.

Do you want that?

The next Confident Man Ranch Retreat is on May 25th-28th this year.

I want you to consider doing something outrageous. Something totally off the board.  Something unexpected and possibly a little "selfish".

I want you to give yourself the PERFECT opportunity to be around men like you...to BECOME a calm, confident, and emotionally courageous man.

This is our 14th Ranch Retreat at Sylvan Dale Ranch in Loveland, Colorado.  And we know one thing for sure about this retreat.

It permanently changes you.  It changes your sense of self-respect.  It changes your sense of purpose.  It changes your style of leadership.  

It changes your life the moment you return home and walk in the door.

Why?  How?

Because YOU change your view of yourself.  You change your perspective about your wife and marriage.  You change the way you THINK and RESPOND to everything...including your "Not Okay" wife.

You end up TAKING THIS MINDSET BACK TO YOUR REALITY.   And then your "reality" actually changes.

If you are ready for that, it's time to save your spot for this May's retreat. Spaces go fast.

If you would like a 20 minute chat with me to talk about whether or not this is for you, just hit reply now and ask me.

Click on the link below to reserve your spot with a deposit.

The pictures on this page are amazing!

The May 2025 Confident Man Ranch Retreat in Loveland, Colorado

Lotta love, brother,

Steve