Let's face it. Politics has a very special ability to make people act like dicks. That includes you and your
wife.
I'm sure you've seen it at work, within your extended families and with friends. Everyone's walking around with a bit of a chip on their shoulder looking for the first sign of an offense, insult or grievance about something.
It's a bias toward finding negativity that is easily satisfied because that is ALL you're looking for.
This is why marriages fail. This is why your wife is being a dick...and you are too, probably. You both are
following a dark spiral of negativity and racing toward the bottom.
This includes projecting feelings of resentment, abandonment, and suspicion.
Where a HEALTHY marriage with HEALTHY people will give instant benefit of the doubt, give kindness, give appreciation and give heaps of affection...the unhealthy marriage does exactly the opposite!
This is the "politics" of marriage. You choose sides and commence to flog each
other with your chosen fears, grievances and negative projections.
So...just stop it. Really. Just stop. Today would be a good time to start.
I know
the REAL you. I really do.
And I know the REAL woman your wife would like things to change. But you're both too damn invested in your own bias.
What if
JUST ONE OF YOU decided to pivot and go the other way?
What if that person was you?
What if you became stronger, clearer and more confident than you've felt in a long
time?
What if you took a magic pill that gave you magic courage to step up and demand a stop to this bullshit?
Are you ready?
Good. Let's do this, shall we?
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