It's the "not knowing" that will make you crazy.
How can she "not know" whether or not she wants to be intimate with you?
How can she "not know" where she sees the marriage going?
How can she "not know" if she wants to stay married?
This email is for the guy who is losing sleep - losing weight - and losing PATIENCE with the "I don't know" game.
Every single marriage and every single person has moments where they question everything.
- Am I happy?
- Am I with the right person?
- Is this the marriage I dreamed of?
- Is this as good as it gets?
- Am I settling for less than I want?
- Would things be better if we split up?
It's normal to have these thoughts! You're human and she's
human.
It's one thing to THINK those thoughts and it's a whole other thing to actually want a divorce.
A person can quietly ask themselves
those questions and feel absolutely clueless about the answers.
So when she says, "I don't know!", she's probably telling you the truth. She doesn't actually KNOW anything for sure. But she is very sure things don't FEEL right.
This is where you need to get your head on straight and not over-react or over-correct.
Most guys launch into long arguments, debates, begging sessions and text messages that last waaayyyy too
long.
This is your anxiety doing your thinking for you. It makes you desperate and afraid. And that makes you do and say some of the most unproductive stuff that usually makes everything worse.
I want you to know you're not alone. You may feel like there's nobody you can trust to talk to about it. But there is. And there's a much smoother way through this discomfort.
This course is like NOTHING you've ever seen in all your Google searches.
Tim Wade and I personally COACH YOU for over 9 hours of detailed, emotional, deep, dark and sometimes funny content.
This course is what will help you think
clearer, sleep better and gain more confidence about where you're going.
