I don't know about you, but I need repetition to get some of the simplest ideas through my head. LOTS of reminders.
As I read coach Garrett's email below, I found
myself WANTING to do better at this mental shift he talks about. It's so simple you might think, "Yeah, yeah, I've heard that before." Well, there's a huge difference between understanding a concept and actually changing your thinking.
I know this is 100%, balls on accurate. If you can consistently make this one
change, you will see changes in HER that will blow your mind.
If you're a man who wants to dramatically improve your marriage, this course is perfect for you. The success stories coming from guys who have taken this course are piling up. Get on the waiting list now so you don't miss the launch of the next course.
Here's Garrett.
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Marriage is about two people loving each other for who they are. If you want to dramatically improve
your marriage, you'll need to learn how to think highly of your wife even when it's hard.
Why Thinking Highly Of Your Wife Will Dramatically Improve Your Marriage
When our wife knows we think highly of her, it brings out
her best and produces a natural respect towards us.
We men thrive on respect.
Respect makes us feel valued, honored, important, and invincible!
Think of things like honor and importance as gas in our fuel tank.
When you first met your wife, she probably contributed to putting gas in your tank.
She laughed at your jokes, bragged to her friends about you, and admired your skills.
You thought she was pretty awesome too and appreciated the cute ways she behaved!
But at some point, she had a reaction that didn't make sense to us... Or perhaps her attitude seemed over the top in relation to what she accused us of doing "wrong".
Over time, we realized she wasn't the perfect angel we thought she was.
It's easy at this point to CRITICIZE what we don't like about her in hopes of fixing her "flaws".
You and I have both learned this doesn't work.
In fact,
it makes things worse.
The very thing that gets under our skin about our wife is the very thing the relationship needs love directed at.
If
we think of our wife as a stupid idiot when she does something we don’t like, we damage her respect for us.
See how thinking negatively about our wife not only destroys the appreciation she needs but also the respect we crave?
Trust me, she knows what we’re thinking about her even if we don’t say it!
She can smell it all over us as if we’ve tracked dog poo into
the house...
How To Think Highly Of Your Wife Without Excusing Her Negative Behaviors
Being a doormat in your relationship won't prove to your wife that you think
highly of her.
If your wife can make you upset or think negatively about her, then you're relying on her for some form of validation.
A man who values
his own opinion of himself more than others will stop relying on others for validation.
When we stop depending on our wife's behaviors to give us a sense of well-being, we'll stop arguing about stupid stuff and stop letting her reactions trigger us.
Only this kind of confident man is able to set boundaries around his wife's negative behaviors while maintaining a tone of care that draws out her respect.
How You Can Take The Next Step For Your Marriage RIGHT NOW
Hands down, the #1 thing that can dramatically improve your marriage is learning how to think highly of your wife.
Never underestimate how "love covers a multitude of sins"!
I've seen many women drop the scoreboard of faults she's been holding towards her husband when he starts looking at her with appreciation.
Spots are limited!
- The course runs for two months and costs $424
per month.
- Registration opens on October 5th.
- Registration will only be open for 24 hours or until 8 spots are filled, whichever comes first.
- Sessions are October 12th, October 26th, November 9th, and November 23rd at 5:00 pm Pacific time.
As a bonus, we are including a special segment on how to confidently build a deep and meaningful emotional connection with your wife!
This segment is normally part of another program, and we don't plan to include it for free with future Confidence Course groups.
Imagine being a man who can effortlessly lead your relationship away from arguments and frustration back to love, affection, respect,
and positive experiences.
Can you see yourself taking charge of your relationship, and clearing the blocks preventing a loving emotional connection with your wife?
You want to be this
guy…She needs you to be this guy.
This new confident version of yourself who thinks highly of his wife is waiting for you on the other side.
We'll see you there, live and in person!
Garrett Prettyman
Mark Drezga
Associate Coaches at GG2GM
