The "Not Normal" Arguments That Spell Bigger Trouble

Published: Thu, 12/26/24

Updated: Thu, 12/26/24

Hey brother,

Marital fights are normal, right?

And arguments are bound to happen, right?

And periodic fighting is a healthy sign, right?

Beware of anyone (including your wife) who tries to convince you that constant conflict in your marriage is "normal".

Here's what is "normal".

Feeling tired, cranky and agitated is normal
Getting a little "snappy" is normal
Needing some time to yourself in normal.
Conflicting opinions and heated conversations over housekeeping, money, sex, child rearing in-laws are normal.
Toilet paper and dishwasher wars are normal. Over the top or under? Knives pointed up or down?

Here's what is NOT "normal":

Silent treatments that last for days are NOT normal. They are toxic.
Vicious verbal attacks and personal criticisms are NOT normal. They are toxic.
Constant defensiveness and refusal to take any personal responsibility for the relationship health is NOT normal. It's toxic.
Hateful and contemptuous words, behavior and thoughts are NOT normal. They are the #1 predictor of impending divorce.

It is CRUCIAL you know the difference between normal and constructive conflict and the kind of behavior that will crush each other's spirit and your marriage.

This is why the first thing we cover in Module 2 in our How to Defuse the Divorce Bomb course covers, "Why you argue about stupid shit and how to stop it cold."

This module also dives into, "How to confront the sex issue and why arguing about it is making things worse."

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Lotta love and Merry Everything to you, brother,

Steve

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