“Say what you mean...but don't say it
mean”
~ Tony Gaskins
I like that quote because it gets to the heart of this newsletter.
If you want to be an effective man, father and husband there are some very basic values you'll need.
Deciding that you're a man who can have serious conversations without resorting to meanness is an example of a VALUE. It's a guiding MOP (Masculine Operating Principle)
It might sound something like this..
I am a man who treats people with respect and courtesy.
You might even add "even when they don't appear to deserve it".
This is very clear. With that value, you're being very deliberate about the kind of man you are and the kind of masculinity you put out into the world, no matter how the world is trying to trip you up.
Most guys who complain about lack of connection, intimacy and respect in their marriage are battling a serious condition I'll call LOW VALUES SYNDROME.
This simply means they don't
have a CLEAR view of who they are, what they believe and what MOP's guide their everyday interactions.
In this video I want to tell you about the THREE crucial values I think every man needs if he wants to create more connection, intimacy and respect.
I'll also give specific tips in this video to know when you're straying out of your lane and how to course correct.
