Proactive Hope
I just invented that term.
What is "proactive hope"?
It's the realization that you ARE NOT THE VICTIM OF YOUR CIRCUMSTANCES. You have agency - your personal power within - to change your circumstances even if you can't
prevent certain negative outcomes.
It's the acceptance of responsibility for changing your perspective...changing your
THINKING and, therefore, changing those feelings of hopeless desperation that cause paralysis.
When you decide to take responsibility you will then start making decisions and declarations that align with your values and your truth.
This causes an immediate change in your circumstances AND an immediate change in your emotional experience of your circumstances.
And THIS is where you need to be in order to create a whole new story of your future.
For most men, it's their inability to imagine A FULFILLING AND REWARDING FUTURE that feeds their desperation, resentment and sadness.
How to Start Creating Your Amazing Future Story
It all starts with surrounding yourself with wise, caring, initiated men who have traveled the same path
as you.
You must have a
tribe of men around you who can teach, encourage and support you in the journey. It is positively the FASTEST and MOST EFFECTIVE way for you improve your current situation - inside of you and outside of you.
Here are some immediate options for you to stop hoping and instead use your agency and start creating a whole new reality for yourself: