If  You Don't Think She Will...She Won't

As I mentioned in the video, it is YOUR MINDSET that has the most impact on you getting what you want.

If your "horse" detects an ounce of doubt, a smidgen of fear, a speck of urgency or a MOLECULE is frustration...you've lost. 

You're no longer a leader to her.  You're suspicious source of pressure or fear.

Sorry, brother.  Them's the cards we've ALL been dealt.  

Our only choice is to find that place of unbridled swagger, personal peace and self-satisfaction before you try to lead her anywhere.

A leader knows who he is.  He is fully aware of his own value as a man and how he wants to lead those he loves.

A leader knows how to make an invitation without being scary.

He knows how to ASK for something that feels like a partnership instead of a trick.

A good leader always believes in others more than they might believe in themselves in the moment.  He believes she CAN and she WILL because he truly sees her strength and courage.  He knows that if he doesn't think she will...she won't!

A strong leader notices the "try" when others are unsure or afraid.  He stops the pressure after seeing the softest "YES" and he always knows there is another day.

A loving leader is naturally patient and understanding because he is able to give himself that same grace.

Yeah, I know some of this sounds of bit lofty and maybe out of your reach.

You may be thinking, "Damn, does it really have to be that HARD?"

It's really some of the simplest concepts you've ever learned!

It's the epitome of "LESS IS MORE".

And when you learn this mindset and these skills, you'll find out that you've been trying way too hard.  It's liberating as hell.  

Here's how a man from our last ranch retreat put it:

"With the opening, introductory question from Steve and Tim at the Retreat, it was clear that bringing one's vulnerability and truth was the name of the game. It was just what I was hoping and looking for even though I knew I was gonna have to push through insecurities. A safe, judgement-free space to connect with real men on a real level about real topics and issues. The ranch is an ideal setting given its vibe and surroundings, and Steve and Tim have this dialed in by striking a great balance between quantity of men attending, instruction, group discussion, individual reflections, and horse work. It was an unforgettable experience."

Here's the bottom line.

Tim Wade and I love this retreat!  We love watching men connect and cure themselves of the stress, fear and frustration that is messing up their lives.

We want to share a drink around a fire with you.  We want to climb a mountain on horseback with you.

We want you to want this for yourself.  

Read the information page carefully.  Look at the pics.

Hit reply now to ask me a question and I'll will reply right away.

Go to The Confident Man Ranch Retreat page to learn more and, if you're ready, put a $500 deposit down to save your spot.