Most men who are confronted with the threat of losing their marriage and family unit are immediately gripped with fear, confusion and anxiety.

They think the wrong thoughts which makes for really bad decisions.

This includes over-reactions and totally ineffective "solutions".  They fight, argue, negotiate, beg and control everything they can.

But the most effective THOUGHT to start with is, "I'm not gonna die."

That's the truth.  You're okay and you'll be okay.

This is an impossible journey to weather alone.  This is why we've created communities of amazing men to support, encourage and teach you how to keep your head straight.

Joining a brotherhood of men who knows EXACTLY what you're going through is crucial. 

Then, building your emotional strength, confidence and self-respect will help you to think straight and take actions that are actually effective.

There's one more truth I've discovered.

Men need other men.  It's the only way to make the crucial mind switches we need to make, stay on track and confidently create the life we really want.