"You'll never be more approachable and attractive as when you appear to others as loving your own life."
~ Me
This is true at work. It's true when making friends. It's true when building a business.
And it's true in your committed
relationship.
However, many of us begin to use our committed relationship and partner as our safe house for whining, complaining and begging for attention. It's a place where we play smaller and it begins to be the only "life" we can imagine.
No wonder so many of us men become unhappy, clingy, needy shells of the man we used to be. And no wonder we can end up resenting the damn dog for having more game than we do!
What's the answer to getting a life BIGGER than your
dog?
Make a decision to take care of yourself.
Most men don't even know what that means. They don't prioritize their health, their desires, their passions or
their dreams.
Most men are too busy operating to someone else's agenda for what it means to be a "good guy" and are getting exhausted trying to please everyone but themselves.
What would you do with your life if you knew you couldn't fail?
What interest and passion have you put on the back burner?
What new skill or adventure have you talked yourself out of every year for the last ten years?
I've got two suggestions to get you off dead center today. One is super easy and the other is a little riskier!
