How To Have A Good Day No Matter What's Happening In The World

Published: Thu, 11/07/24

Updated: Thu, 11/07/24

Hey brother,

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Now onto today's newsletter...

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I don't hope you're having a "good day" today.

Why?

Because the "day" has really nothing to say about it.

The quality of your day has nothing to do with all the random unexpected circumstances, events, conversations or thoughts that pop into your life and into your head.

Seriously. Telling someone to "Have a good day" or "I hope you have a good vacation!" or "I hope your relationship is going good." is part of our pop culture problem.

And it has a LOT to do with the excess number of highly sensitive, highly reactive and highly anxious people these days.

If you were teaching a child a lesson on "How to Have a Good Day", would you teach him/her to "hope for the best"?

Would you teach them they are at the whim of every single unknown circumstance, event or word someone says to them?

Would you teach them to just point their head down, stay away from trouble and try not to upset anyone?

Hell no, you wouldn't. I know this about you.

You would teach a very different lesson to the child about their self-esteem, their worthiness and their ABILITY TO BRING THEIR BEST SELF INTO EACH AND EVERY DAY.

You would teach them that all those outside circumstances, words or thoughts are AT THE WHIM OF THEM AND THE SPIRIT THEY BRING INTO EACH AND EVERY DAY.

So...next time someone asks you, "Did you have a good weekend?", I'd love for you to reply, "Nope, the weekend had a good ME!"

In this video I go a little deeper into WHY this is the only reasonable and intelligent approach to each day.

How To Have A Good Day No Matter What's Happening In The World

You can believe the world is happening to you...or believe YOU can happen to the world. Pick one.

When men tell me they want:

More confidence
More happiness
More respect
More hope
More influence
More love

...I tell them those things are natural results of something else.

Those things come into your life only when they FIRST COME OUT OF YOU.

That is exactly the transformation we will teach you. It's one thing to tell you WHAT you need to do.

We will demonstrate and teach you HOW TO BE this man in every aspect of your life.

All you need now is the courage to open up your heart to someone who has been in your shoes.

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We take YOU and your struggles seriously...because we've been there
We know feeling like you're having a crappy time in life is serious
And we know a lack of clarity about how to change it is serious now and for your long term future happiness
We believe your personal emotional strength and well-being is serious
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Lotta love,

Steve & Dan

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